How to reconcile with her husband - to put up with her husband
You are the keeper of the hearth. Patient, wise, sensitive, delicate and gentle by nature. And strong. Strong in spirit. It is not for nothing that wise philosophers have compared women for centuries to cats, independent and at the same time extremely affectionate. Independence you have already shown. Show your wisdom, show your tenderness, bestow a beloved caress, warmth, caring. Especially since you really want this, because the last disagreement so cuts your soul. And to him, believe me, too. Erase pride in the heart and mind. Become a real keeper of the hearth, on which depends not only coziness, but also the integrity of the family.
Remember the magic words that all of us were taught at school: "forgive", "please."In adulthood, all the same rules. It's unlikely that your husband will be able to resist: "Beloved, I repent!"Forgive me, my happiness! "And if these words are followed by a tender kiss, and. .. heavy artillery in the form of amazing underwear, postcards with confessions around the house and all its way, candles at the bed," private "dance, or announcements on the radio on the channel that he likes to listen to. Why do not you declare your feelings publicly? After all, it works without fail!
"But if it's his fault," you ask. Here already it is obviously more difficult. At least because it will have to struggle with the inherent in every inner "I".But there is no one to blame for the disagreement. You, being a half of the whole, are responsible not only for yourself, but also for the other half. Save this half, and at the same time the whole whole - your family. Become a leader. How to do it? Here no psychologist will give you a clear instruction. Intuition and boundless love. Only they will become faithful advisers. Only they will prompt a correct course.
Talk to him. Ask him to listen and not interrupt. Let it be something like a "round table", where the basic rules - do not interrupt, do not shout, do not argue. Describe this in advance. And most importantly - do not argue, do not blame, do not shout yourself. Tell him how painful it becomes for you when he offends you. After all, the offense inflicted on loved ones is a hundred times stronger than any other offense. Try to convey to your husband that you love him endlessly, you endlessly trust him and everything you want is hidden only in one phrase: "to be near."And be sure to listen to him. Quiet. Attentively. Not interrupting. And perhaps, just embracing. And further actions will tell the heart. ..