How a man shows love
To talk about such a concept as male love is becoming more difficult every day. The development of technologies radically changes the way people communicate, and the desire of women to be independent and free has fundamentally changed the notion of relationships. Perhaps, it is because of this that it's so hard to understand whether a man loves you, or is it just an inoffensive flirtation.
Marriage is a part of our life, to which we all aspire, and this is exactly what allows our life to gain its meaning. However, in order that your family does not fall apart in the first six months of living together, a man and a woman tend to get to know each other as closely as possible - for this they meet, live together, find common interests and hobbies. In the process, conflicts, some "uncomfortable" situations, can inevitably arise, but all of them are small steps on the way to full understanding of each other. Sometimes conflicts can arise on the basis of gender differences - men and women quite different from this world( not only as individuals, but also as members of their gender).And here, high speeches on the equality of the sexes are completely inappropriate - however, the male and female views on the same subject differ, and this fact simply needs to be accepted as an axiom. It does not say that someone is better, but someone is worse - we are just different and that's all! This is the reason for the emergence of quite a large number of different information that allows women to understand the question of how their feelings are expressed by men.
Actions
At the first stage of the relationship, it is commonly believed that a man should be the initiator of various kinds of actions. But, taking into account the level of emancipation of modern women, this rule is often omitted. After all, it is not so difficult to imagine that before you this man had a certain experience of the relationship and if they ended very unsuccessfully, he, taught by bitter experience, will behave extremely cautiously, trying not to get into sometime, perhaps with great difficulty,experienced an unpleasant situation. Therefore, be patient and with the maximum understanding of all the bold steps taken by a man who likes you, trying to find a way to your heart. This may be uncertain touches or even ridiculous jokes, but in any case, all his attention will be riveted to you. In such a situation, if you feel sympathy for this man, do not play the role of an impregnable bitch, because it will only scare him off. Be softer, give him a smile and a kindness full of kindness - he will become bolder and will be ready for the first steps!
In any case, it is worthwhile to understand that before acquaintance with you your lover lived his life, where he had his own hobbies and views on this world. Do not change it - because then it will cease to be yourself. And if in the first stage of the relationship there can be doubts about the sincerity of the feelings of men, then in the future the question of how the love of a man manifests itself can rise more often. And in order to give an answer to this question, it will take a lot of patience and understanding.
Gifts
Gifts is one of the important aspects of relationships. Men look at this question differently. Some seek to shower their beloved with gifts, some are presented that will be extremely valuable for her heart and your relationship. And here you should not take offense at any of the gifts given by a man, even if you thought that there was some hint in it - most likely it is not so. Men pay less attention to detail than women - they tend to come to the end result. In most cases, if a man wants to give you a present, this is good, then he wants with all his heart to give that piece of heat that is stored in his heart. But, as we all know perfectly well, it's quite difficult for men to show their feelings - that's why they make it quite veiled - they give gifts, they equip our lives. This may seem to be the standard "function" of a man, because, in the opinion of most women, a loved one should do the same - give gifts and keep his lover. But in this case it is worth considering the fact that the male part of the world population is a pragmatic people. And before you give even a small trifling gift, he should know that he can get something in return - warm words, support and so on. In any case, if a man presented you a present - it means that he sees in you the future.
Compliments, beautiful words
How does a man show love? Pretty sparingly. We all know that not everyone is able to make beautiful words and serenades under the window. Often men who are able to devote their beloved ladies to poetry are extremely creative natures. They can commit insane, unordinary, romantic actions, but at the same time be emotionally complex people, with whom it is quite difficult to create a family life in the future.
If you want that your man could make you romantic surprises - let him be himself. Of course, each of us has his own idealized image of a prince, with a car, a country house with a swimming pool and other financial goods. But not every man at the time of dating you can have it all. And this is the role of women in the life of a man. She must disclose it as a person, push for the accomplishment of new and new feats, even when the hands fall, but in any case not to cross that thin line between the role of the beloved and the mother. And then, when he feels comfortable enough to open his heart and his emotions before you, then you will get the reward you have been waiting for - beautiful words, gifts and most importantly - a man who can reach any heights for you.
Conflicts
In conflicts we are able to show the most vivid emotions. At this time, everyone can say a lot of unpleasant words that will come from the heart, or just to annoy. But do not take these words seriously. After all, in the heat of emotions, we rarely restrain ourselves.
In the conflict, the most important thing is the way that a person asks for forgiveness. The most sincere manifestation of warm feelings will be a sincere repentance in the deed. Well, if your man does not feel guilty, then as a pardon, the phrase can be: "Do not be offended."Of course, the latter option does not sound like a consolation and may not become a way for reconciliation, but if you pay attention to the fact that your lover showed himself on the weak side, even if he does not consider himself guilty - it says a lot. So he is ready for everything for you, if only you were together.