What you can not tell a man - what can not be said to a man

Having lived for ten years with your beloved husband, you, of course, can tell him everything that will pop up into your head. But at the very beginning of the relationship try to be more circumspect and think about what you are talking about. Learn one thing: it is better to have your own man than to talk constantly about something. This rule helps to reduce the risk of blurting out too much, which can then negatively affect your relationship. But you do not need to behave like a partisan without telling anything to yourself. You just need to remember that you can not tell a man.

Phrase number 1: "Your mother interferes with our life"

Mom is the main person in everyone's life. Therefore, it is absolutely not surprising that the majority of men, having heard something in the reproach of their mother, will be in a protective pose. This applies even when your loved one understands that his parent really does go too far in certain moments. And do not even try to understand the unconscious of your boyfriend. The main thing to remember is one: reproach his mother - this is equivalent to what you would reproach him.

Phrase No. 2: "You are so similar to my former love!"

Once and for all, understand and remember: you can never tell a man about your former young man. And then not a long time, when he can follow in the footsteps of your past love. Leave such topics for girls. Men talk about the former is not even that not interesting, they are the causes of the strongest emotions, and as you understand, not always positive.

First: if you compare, then you have with whom. And every man wants to be unique and unique with his beloved. Second: if you are thinking about your ex-boyfriend in the presence of a guy, then your current young man can not completely occupy your thoughts. But those who are really in love, can not think of anyone else but their beloved.

Therefore, you should never tell a man about your past relationship. Exception: only when he asks you about it( maybe it will be interesting).And in this case you do not need to get too involved with memories. You can refuse to tell anything at all, explaining this by saying that the past your loved one is not worthy of such a wonderful person as your current one was spending his precious time on it.

Phrase No. 3: "Would I have bought a lily better"

Your loved one bought you roses, but you can not stand them? I'll have to wait. Most men in general do not understand why to spend money on something that will soon have to be thrown out in the trash. Therefore, having acted, in his opinion, absolutely not pragmatic, he expects that you will appreciate his wonderful gesture. After all, he did it only to please you. Therefore, if you decide to priverivered, remember that you may well be next time without any flowers at all.

Phrase No. 4: "You have such a beautiful friend"

This phrase is even worse than the one about the previous guys. Probably, only some "special" girl can say this to her beloved. Often girls are jealous of their guys to their friends, but in this case, you can be prepared for the fact that everything will change completely: he will begin to be jealous of you to his own friends. Men like to be the most indispensable and the only ones, and then you suddenly talk about the beauty of another guy. After all, there are often situations where a girl leaves a boyfriend for his best friend. But even if you had nothing of the kind in mind, you know: by your phrase you have already launched an unnecessary mechanism of jealousy. And do not be surprised then that after such a conversation, your man will begin to be jealous of you to every pillar. Is this what you need? Most likely, no, so do not make this mistake.

Phrase No. 5: "All men go crazy"

Do not, believe me, do not say that. Of course, only not in the case when you absolutely sincerely think that this is bad. After all, a girl who enjoys the attention of other men, but absolutely does not pay any attention to them, deserves one praise. Men just hope to meet such an ideal.

But, if you say this phrase, diluting her with the happiest smile, a man will consider you a taciturn and will never be able to take you seriously. Most likely, no man will want to build a relationship with such a fickle girl. And even if you are not so completely, it will be very difficult to prove now.

Phrases No. 6: "What do you think, which dress to choose?"

You can, of course, discuss with your loved ones the need to buy new things, but only if the young man himself is a fashionista and adores shops. If this is not about you, it is undesirable to talk to him about the outfits. First, there are fewer and fewer men obsessed with their appearance and appearance. Now the type of men prevails, who thinks much more about how to support his family, for example, than about what trousers to choose for this jacket.

Secondly, most likely, the guy just can not support the conversation about new purchases. You can not determine the chances of Liverpool to go to the Europa League?

Therefore, discuss new collections only with girlfriends, save the man from unnecessary and uninteresting, in fact, conversations.

Phrase No. 7: "Do you love me?"

Even if your young man has not yet told you these three treasured words, it is quite possible he is already thinking about how to do it. And here you are with your question. .. You just put it to a standstill and ruin all plans. Practice has shown that a girl who at least once asks such a question, as a rule, continues to ask him throughout all relations. You do not want him to confess to you in love only when you ask about it? Not very good at it.

There are many other things about what you can not talk to a man, especially if you want that in your relationship the world reigned and love. All the "harmful" statements can not be considered in one article. But the main thing is that you got the show.

Remember that a man is gentle and his pride is very painful to react to all your even the smallest injections. Do not irritate him with stupid phrases and then your relationship will be happy.