How to stop sawing a husband - how not to nag a husband

How many ask a married woman, she never confesses that often "saws" his soul mate. But if you ask her husband, he immediately tells how his beloved wife gets it with their claims and arrivals, drips on the brain, etc. But do not think that the beautiful half of humanity is not sincere. It's all about the woman's perception of her behavior. What a man considers moralizing and "sawing", from the point of view of his wife will be:

• regular quiet and completely unobtrusive reminders( only once a half hour);
• advice of a wise and experienced spouse who knows perfectly well how to be better for a beloved husband;
• is not not a critic, but only an "adjustment" of the actions of one's faithful, if they are not entirely consistent with its ideas;
• is absolutely "constructive dialogue" - the wife instructs, and the husband in reply nods and silently agrees.

If from all of the above, at least one point is the same as the communication in your family, it means, dear ladies, that it's time to get rid of such a bad habit as grumbling and criticizing. Think carefully at your leisure time, how to stop sawing your husband, because no one likes to be sawed.

And to make it easier for you to get rid of this, try to look from the side to everything that happens in your home.

Tips for wives

If your beloved husband does something wrong, as you would do, then this does not mean at all that he is stupid or armless, and, moreover, completely unsuitable for life. He is different! If only because he is a man.

Let's say that her husband burned cutlets. This does not mean that your spouse does not know how to cook. Simply, most likely, all members of his family, in which he grew up, adored a rosy crusty crust. It is impossible to train a person one or two times in such a way that it is not only delicious, but also beneficial to the body!

Finally, the notorious overcrowded trash can. The wife often finds it difficult to understand: why does her dear husband do not follow the amount of garbage on his own and why should he be reminded every time to take out the garbage? It's so simple: once a day to look in the kitchen under the sink to see if the bucket is full of garbage? !

Precious women, if you are tired of constantly making remarks to the spouse, and you for yourself have firmly decided to stop once and for all your husband, then listen to what he tells you about his old habits, worked out since childhood. Ask him in detail how and what was taken in their family, or even, while visiting his mother, to oversee family traditions and customs. Perhaps this will clarify the situation for you, and then you will be able to change your attitude to various household trifles, which are different from everything that was taken in your parents' family.

And more. .. the same words can be pronounced with different intonations. Check in practice, just tenderly and cute, ask the husband to take out the garbage. And you will see that your beloved will do it absolutely calmly. Think, maybe he long waits for you warm words and does not dare to tell you about it? They say that a smile and a kind word are being healed by the soul.

And finally. .. remember that we are all people, not angels. And we all make mistakes at times. I remembered a common saying: to understand is to forgive. Forgive your beloved with misunderstandings and minor flaws in your family life. And more often remember that when you went with the future husband to the crown, you swore to him in love and fidelity, and not that you will re-educate him. Promised to love? So love! And take care of your man. Stop stopping and instructing him. If you really want to, then it's better to have a quiet talk, exchange opinions and come to a peace agreement, how to act in such a way that you both feel comfortable living together.