Hysteroid
The hysteroid is a big liar. And he is not just lying, but to impress. At the same time, he places himself at the center of his narrative story. We lie, and the love of a hysterical order turns into order: the middle is swept out, and under the couches the clumps of dust are the same as the dirty dirt. .. Even in suffering, lies. Everything is exaggerated. Even in the situation of suicide, the hysteroid self-denyingly lies: ten tablets swallow and ten notes will decompose where to look. The hysterical likes to promise a lot, this, too, attracts people to himself. But he is unreliable in his promises. He will come up with three boxes, promise, put noodles on his ears, but he will not fulfill his promises, for this, more serious efforts are needed, which he lacks. And he will find an excuse for not fulfilling his promises, fantastic, but sincere and believable. The spouse at first believes in lies and explanations, but then it starts to annoy, especially the epileptoid, strains the situation, and then unproductive conflicts destroy the marriage.
Isteroid love to cry. This - the manifestation of infantilism( mental retardation at the children's level - usually children cry because).Hysteroids - so those tears can start up right after the gurgling laughter. Weeping with sobs, whining, sometimes quiet tears, but large, so that it can be seen from afar. And to regret. Well, if they do not turn their attention to the CRYSTAL BLIND, THEN ALL AROUND SUCH
ASKED A set of similar "qualities" makes an hysteroid a tragic-comic character in a marriage.
Asteroid often changes a husband. In pursuit of impressions, out of lust for life, maybe even to help the cause. For revenge for insufficient attention."You do not love me", but "look how I like others".According to her logic, if he does not give flowers, then he does not like much;would love - would give. A lover gives. She does not understand that the lover gives to conquer( and the husband has already won), that this is only manipulation on his part or forced by her manipulation of the action. In this case, since the husband is often epileptoid or paranoid, it is from business and ceases to give flowers, believing that he provided the family - and enough, and the flowers - it's a whim, a fantasy. Mistresses or brides are given and they, where are they? Hysteroid and hypertensive men also give, perhaps, to their wives, only they can not always make money on flowers.
The hysterics, if it does not change, flirts, and it does not hide this flirting, but, on the contrary, it shows it off, it needs everyone to see that it is being taken care of, that it is being sought. Men and steroids, of course, also change. Also from thirst to impress and get impressions.
Changing, they say goodbye and return, swear fidelity and change again. Changing themselves a hysterical experience with hysterics, sobbing, reproaches, cries, accusations and forgiveness. The hysterical is not jealous of death, forgives when repenting. But that repentance should be loud, oath, sacrificial. These passionmordords are difficult to bear for the second spouse.
Isteroids like to arrange receptions. One day a paranoid husband inadvertently said to a friend: come, they say, we'll talk, we'll have dinner. .. "Aah, you called him for dinner, well, so go to the store to have an aperitifs salad first of the third desertscigars," his wife began to nag.
And the arrangement in the rooms - not just for life, no, it should show everyone: what is her bathroom luxurious, what equipment in the kitchen, what double-glazed windows on the windows, "vaaschee. ..", what is her cosiness in the house. The bathroom, by the way, is decorated with a hysterical richer than all the other places in the apartment, and it spends a considerable part of the time in it, not only to put it in order. For her, the bathroom is the realm of the body, the most intimate corner of the soul, the "groin and armpit of her house."Before receiving the hysterectomy brings order. But she sweeps only the middle of the room, and in the corners there is a cobweb and a bunch of dust. All this is not very pleasant to the paranoid and epileptoid husband.
The asteroids almost do not have archives. The hysteroid often arranges cleansing, tearing out obsolete rags and papers. Sometimes the right thing is thrown out. One wife has destroyed drafts of protected( what, they say, store, if already protected) dissertations of her husband. That's what she arranged for him, well, so he arranged for her
. The money does not hold in the hysteroid. He squeezes them, eats, drinks. Buys a lot of unnecessary things. He lives on credit( life loan).Debts are accumulating. When it is pressed, it re-takes. Avoids creditors: "I'm not at home."Then he finds new companies, he climbs into new debts, and the process repeats. Therefore,
almost never has any money, there are debts. Naturally, this is the source of family conflicts.
Asteroid is more like an owl than a lark. Nightlife in prestigious clubs in the clubs of cigarette smoke, receptions of late idle guests. My husband most likely does not like this, he objects, and she objects to the objections.
The hunter will prefer to eat in a restaurant. It's not food that matters to him, although he likes to eat tasty food, but the fact that I'm at a restaurant, with friends. The restaurant is expensive, and epileptoid and paranoid husbands are usually against. At home, hysteroids can be good cooks. They are gourmets. Wine is martini, mukuzani. One hysteroid refused even to mukuzani: "I want a Chianti";the other did not begin to meet New Year's lover, because he did not get pineapples( and the case was with Brezhnev - pineapples were only on the tables of party bosses).These moods are initially perceived as something sweet, then annoying, and later cause anger.
Rest hysterics recognize only costly. Previously, it was the Crimea, the Caucasus. .. It does not matter to them that there is a sea of urine in Sochi. The main thing is that it's prestigious, that you can flannel in dresses along the embankment, stand in fashionable bathing suits on the beach, substituting a snow-white back for the sun and getting burns, which are healed by expensive creams. Now it's the Canary Islands, Cyprus, at worst Antalya. They "need a Turkish shore", as opposed to what was sung in a patriotic Soviet song. If you spend less than a thousand dollars per person per week, what kind of vacation is it? And weekends are necessary, and holidays, to go on the Golden Ring, to live in motels."Picnics on the roadside."They have a rest with ecstasy. They rest without fatigue. For epileptoid husbands - this is an eternal battle. ..
The hunter is looking for suffering, because it attracts attention to him. He revels in it. He wants to be compassionate and busy. Everyone likes to be with them, and do not like being thrown in trouble. But an hysteroid: see how I suffer, I must regret it. If there are not enough natural causes that cause pity, the hysteroid will not do it properly enough and cut, there will be blood, everyone will run around and he will receive attention. And sometimes in hysterics - and demonstrational self-mutilation, cuts on the elbows, supposedly in order to get to the vein;they only get to small arteries, but there is a lot of blood. And look: see what you've brought me to, and see how bad I am. To family members all this is troublesome, worrying. .. The hysterics are looking for a bright loud sympathy. They involve everyone in their suffering.
Suicide is close to suffering. A hysteroid is a cry for help. When the hysteroid swallows ten tablets and puts ten
notes where to look for it, it tells everyone that it is abandoned, that everyone left it. And see how beautifully I die, all of you only then will understand who was lost. In an hysteroid, suicide - I actually want to live, but I can not live like this.
Only a hysterical patient is treated with fashionable doctors, the more expensive, the more the husband loves.
Isteroids drink drunk, get drunk, sing songs, they like the state of intoxication - the world is perceived more brightly, prospects are seen in the bright light. Drink often. For business, for fun, to celebrate, to sorrow. And in the end an hysteroid and even a hysterectomy can get drunk. Chronic alcoholism is also a hysteroid disease. Other psychotypes are also being written. But the hysteroid and its chronic alcoholism braves - I'm a loser, an alcoholic, and no one will regret me.
The hysteroid, as a paranoid and epileptoid, in principle prefers an hysteroid of approx. He likes to admire a beautiful wife, he is proud of her, brags to society. The hysteroid will prefer a paranoid or epileptoid.
Hysteroid with an hysteroid quickly converge and very quickly disperse, it is only necessary to tell all about yourself and to entice additional secrets of charm. The conversations are superficial: about prices, about the life of artists. Restaurants, night clubs. A hysteroid with a hysteroid may stay in the marriage for a while if they have a common artistic career or they put lightweight detectives, and she plays the first roles in them. But the charm is quickly replaced by disappointment. And they disagree with a scandal. In the process of marriage - frequent violent quarrels with offensive epithets, with violent same reconciliation, begging for forgiveness.
And here is a hysteroid with an epileptoid. .. Let's develop the topic mentioned earlier. The epileptoid is fundamental, remember, it is an oak tree, you can lean against it, hide in its crown, cuddle up thin branches, well, like in a song about a mountain ash, but in its roots, binding itself with roots, it's very comfortable. The hysteroid develops manipulative abilities. Epileptoiduadobytchiku it may be in some way like it, if he "owns" the beauty of a hysteroid. Well, if it is not too good or not too faithful, then conflicts are inevitable. And suffering. The epileptoid is reserved and dramatic, while in the hysterectomy they are burtrotragic. I have said a lot about the relationship of "hysteroid epileptoid" in the chapter "Epileptoid in Marriage."Look now there again. In order not to get a gloomy-looking exposition, I give part of the material in one place, and a part in another. And if you connect different parts in your mind, you get a single picture.
Often hysteroid are involved in religion, even more often to esotericism, to near-religious currents. Iteroid really want to be closer to the mysterious world, to be "initiated."Especially fashionable are the oriental trends of today's European countries. Just Christianity - for a hysteroid it's not enough. .. She has to become a sorceress, a healer, a psychic or a psychic client, to fly with aliens into space. The hysterics often focuses on fortune telling, on horoscopes, while believing in what her irrational need tells her. She must have an extraordinary child, she will become an actress. .. The muzepepetoid all this suffers, but reluctantly.
Isteroid, it happens, join the paranoid. I have already written about this combination. But we will add. The hysteroid may fall in love with a paranoid, even if not successful. After all, he knows the art of convincing and inspiring. She is not very critical, she believes and even believes. And her "believe" sincerely at that time. She looks at the paranoid prophet with admiration, with sexual lust, she is ready to give himself up to him, surrender( and then betray, by going to another).When the paranoiac reaches fame, it receives a part of this glory. The hysteroid generally gets the attention it needs in the halo of the chosen for them prophet. Here the word "prophet" I, as you understand, I use in nominal terms: the prophet is a prophet everywhere - in religion, in science, in art, and in politics. And everywhere there are hysterias that vary according to circumstances. In a married couple passion is also boiling here. While she is young - she can go to another, brighter, more successful, more affluent. But more often another option: the hysterectomy is aging, more "plastering" on the face, its help to him is not so great as the help of an epileptic, and he is moving forward. .. So the marriage is doomed.
It is difficult for hysterics to get along with schizoids( there are no common interests), and therefore we rarely see them together. And if apart, the hysteroid chuckles at the schizoid for his neglect of fashion, and the schizoid with the hysteroid simply does not have anything to talk about. But. .. it can sometimes happen that the schizoid is in demand and begins to earn. Now, here and the programmers grow into computer magnates. .. Then the hysteroid begins to please your schizoid. He washes expensive shampoos, dresses according to the latest word of fashion, takes a housekeeper and a nanny, leads him for his money to social gatherings. .. Fitness, haircuts. .. With his relative indifference to her appearance, she is happy with aging. Such a marriage can "last and last", unless its treason by circumstances will not change its fate abruptly.
It is clear that the hysteroid makes sense to squeeze the qualities outlined above, which create difficulties for close people. To what is said, let's add some more considerations.
The hysterics should understand, for example, that if her husband becomes overworked and takes risks for her dresses, psychoneuroses and psychosomatic illnesses will develop: hypertensive with her strokes, ulcerous with her perforations and "sharp stomach", ischemic heart disease with her heart attacks. Or put her husband, or even shoot because of her desire for renovation. She will remain a widow. Was this what she wanted?
The hysterics tend to create good, commit unreflected actions, but so that everyone can see everything. They do not want to do good in secret, so that they will be rewarded clearly in the next world, as Jesus commanded. They, like the Pharisees, whom he rebuked, want to give alms and immediately see the admiring glances of people.