In many sorrow, many wisdom.

I like this my aphorism, and therefore a little later I will bring it, in the case of course, again.

Appreciate your schizoid. At the same time, it makes sense to close people to understand that the relationship with people in schizoids is difficult. It is difficult for them to express thoughts in order to be understood. It is even harder to be understood in your psychological experiences. All this is due to the fact that they are tongue-tied, they speak with pauses, inexpressively or even with inadequate intonations. Accompanying speech inadequate mimicry. We want to communicate with a schizoid - we tolerate his emotional dullness. It is as fragile as glass. We need to be more careful with our paranoia and epileptoid pressure, with hyperthymic shamelessness. The brain tissue in the schizoid will be crushed so that it can not participate not only in brainstorming sessions, but in general it will lose the gift of speech together with a creative gift. Therefore - more patience when talking with schizoids. We agree. We listen without interrupting. Asking clarifying questions.

Mental protection in the schizoid is poorly developed. He's wounded. And if someone attacks him, he is going through it. Someone likes to bake. A spouse should be delicate with a schizoid from humanity, since he still develops an inferiority complex.

With the first oncoming schizoid does not open up, not the hysteroid he. But if a close person, a spouse, showed a certain reliability, an intellectual affinity, and if he uses a technique I called "advanced self-disclosure," then the secrets are exchanged for secrecy, and the schizoid becomes more open. This is especially true of sexual secrets. So show reliability, identify affinity.

The schizoid does not feel beneficent in his address. Gratitude is not special - dryish. If he did not ask, and he did something, he will not understand that this is a blessing. Therefore, we need a clarifying agreement, not on paper with two signatures, but it is more important to formulate how much it needs what you agreed to. Treaty A in serious things, even on paper, albeit without two signatures, but with the elaboration of trifles. After all, the schizoid thinks casually, he always finds loopholes for himself, he is inventive. In the family it is not "too", but in particular.

The organization of labor in a schizoid, alas, is not up to par. Records about cases - on pieces of paper that are lost in pockets, they are difficult to disassemble -

is erased. So, in household matters, it makes sense to make a clearer division of labor, highlighting those functions that are more to his liking and that correspond to his formal mathematical vocabulary. For example, make monthly payments, bring home certain products, take out already packed bags with garbage. ..

The schizoid, being emotionally not too responsive, but vulnerable, can be caustically defended, and this is dangerous already for the carelessly indelicate person, since the schizoid is clever and witty. We will be scrupulous with it. We will observe the psychotechnics of communication, confiscate conflict. And again I will say: in the family it is not "also", but in particular.