Relations with married men - relationships with married

Most likely, each of the girls at least once in their lives, but heard from their mother or elder sister that they do not lead to any good relations with married men. But why do not all follow such wise instructions? It is possible that the girls just fall in love and believe that in order to be with the man of your dreams you can forget about any instructions.

Why choose married

Girls often convince themselves that their fault is that by the time of your meeting a man was already married no. This, of course, is so. But it is worth thinking about that you yourself are not aware of this, you run the risk of a far from perfect moment just to be lonely and unnecessary.

It happens that girls simply do not know that a man already has a family. And after only a short amount of time, after they all know, comes the realization of an unpleasant fact: for their dream man, they are just mistresses, a frivolous hobby.

But why, after realizing such a simple truth, do girls break their relationship with married men? The answer is one and it's pretty simple: it remains a hope that after a while the loved one will leave his legal wife and you will live together in full happiness and understanding.

If you absolutely consciously tried on the image of your mistress, be ready for constant attacks of jealousy. Which is not surprising, because you will have a rival - the wife of your loved one. And it is after her call that he will break out and leave. After all, a legal marriage has its consequences, and no one has canceled them.

Battle for your beloved

Let's say you decided to fight for a loved one, even if he already has some obligations to another woman. In this case, you should adequately and objectively assess: what are your chances of a successful outcome at all. Usually, mistresses are brought in by men who have reached adulthood( there are, of course, exceptions).

This happens in connection with the fact that about forty years the men come, as it is called, the crisis of middle age. He is characterized by a desire for some changes in his life: a new job, a new place of residence, a new woman. And the youth and beauty of girls, undoubtedly, attracts such men. But even more their chances of taking a man out of the family increase when every step of the girl thinks.

For example, the situation is this: returning home after a hard day's work, the man sees at home a nervous, unsympathetic and unhappy wife who knows only what to cut him for every little thing. And on the other hand, a beautiful lover, who will make an elegant dinner, and erotic massage will do. And besides, she seldom complains, does not roll up any hysterics and does not saw about or without.

Whom should a man choose? It seems that the answer simply lies on the surface, but rather a man will still remain with an eternally dissatisfied wife. Although, it is rare, however, there are exceptions.

Rules of Conduct with a married man

In a situation where you meet a married man, you need to adhere to several rules:

1. Never fall in love !This rule deservedly won first place, because it is the main thing. In not free men in any case, you can not fall in love. And cherish the hope that he will leave his wife, for the sake of such happiness as you. Again, this happens. But it will be very expensive for you!

If you became the mistress of an exemplary family man, who just wanted for a while new feelings, believe me, he has no idea: to leave his wife. And to marry such a man on himself is unreal difficult.

Even if you are in that small percentage of mistresses for the sake of which families are abandoned, can you be sure that at some point your man will not leave you at the same time? In addition, change or even throw it will not be so difficult. Already went through it all once, and the second one will pass. ..

1. Be patient with .This applies to cases where you still fell in love with a non-free man. You will have to learn a lot:

• secretly meet and send empty SMS;
• smile, even if the soul is very hard. After all, your loved one wants to see you beautiful and cheerful;
• get used to the constant calls of his wife, who often will occur at the most seemingly inopportune moment;
• get used to being at home, it will call you male names;
• forget about the joint weekend and holidays. All these days he will spend only with his wife. You will have to be content with a miserable clock;
• understand that you will never get to know his friends and even more relatives. If even a loved one acquaints with someone, be prepared for the fact that the attitude towards you will only be like a mistress and nothing else;
• forget about the wedding with him. It is necessary to drive away the thought of marriage very far.

1. Do not talk too much .Try not to talk about him when strangers are around. Do not need to mention names, let alone names. You can choose a few closest girlfriends who will know about your relationship. But the rest with the question of personal life will have to smile mysteriously.

It is possible that even your mom you can not tell about your beloved and introduce them. After all, mothers also warn, mainly, about the relationship with the married. Why do their daughters never listen?

1. Reconcile with the constant loneliness of .I'll have to take it for granted that the gray days of all mistresses are exactly like this:

• you can not go to cafes and clubs, because sometimes you want to, without him, but his jealousy will not allow you. In movies, bars, travel with your beloved, you will travel very rarely. And your plans, which you have been building for so long, can fall apart only because of one call of his lawful wife;
• in the evenings you will sit all alone and browse your favorite movies;
• to wake up and fall asleep again you will be alone, with very few exceptions.

If you noticed that your beloved absolutely does not hurry to leave his wife, take this very seriously. But how to behave when you realized this unpleasant fact?

An unambiguous answer here can not simply be, each decides for itself. After all, the psychology of a relationship with a married man is most often based on love for him. But it is better to initially try not to treat such a novel too seriously, otherwise you will have to suffer very much.

Think about the future, about your future. .. No one is getting younger, and in fact you need to start your family, children and just become happy.