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  • The desire to escape is normal

    Next topic - from the taboo area. Death, drugs, folk dances. .. and, finally, the most terrible of all unforgivable thoughts: it happens that you dream of somehow getting rid of your own children.

    Well, of course, you can not for a moment assume that your beloved angels are often able to turn into the most real small dirty people. You, of course, can humorously self-deprecatingly say sometimes that you would be glad to hide from them far away, but you are not serious! How can you? !To love your children is your sacred and immutable duty, therefore, you are obliged to experience love not only for yourself, but for everything that is attached to them. You should smile humbly, reading three months in a row every evening the same tale already learned by heart;fascinated listen to the wild howls accompanying insane jumps around the apartment;laughing joyfully, when you are told( for the twenty-fifth time) the same incongruous anecdote.

    It's funny that no one thinks that annoyance towards any other children, except for one's own, is abnormal or worthy of blame( although, as a rule, it is not accepted to express it clearly anyway).So all of us are aware of how children can jerk nerves to adults. Hence, each of us knows perfectly well about what our own children can do, and certainly do, the same as all the others. And in this there is nothing shameful and pathological!

    Agree, this talent they are endowed with abundant. And it begins to appear almost from birth. Crying the baby will drill your brain until you finally do what it wants from you. A trouble-free method of influence, you will not say anything. From now on, your nervous system has to withstand the test for strength for many years( with different, however, intensity).And not always the child does this way only to spite you. It happens that he himself suffers no less. However, when you are not allowed to sleep for the third night in a row, it's somehow difficult to be sympathetic. Mind you can understand that the child is not to blame, but the only desire that you are experiencing at the moment is that he shut up at last and gave you a little sleep! In the end, it is not necessary to yell because of some cutting teeth! You'll think, woe!. .

    So, I have some news for you, All without exception, parents, very often, day after day, think and feel something like that. At some stages these thoughts visit them once every fifty a day, on others - not more often than once or twice a week. And all that is required of any of you is to come to terms with the fact that this is the norm, and those who refuse to do this are just hypocrites. It is impossible to raise a child, avoiding hassle, and do not complex about it.

    And I can also recall that the stick is actually about two ends. If you have not completely forgotten your own childhood, you must understand what I mean. Let now it seems to you that the children are eager to finish your poor sanity by any means, but try not to forget that, most likely, they think about you the same thing. So you are even!

    IRRITATION RELATED TO ANY

    TO OTHER CHILDREN, EXCEPT OWNERS, ANYBODY DOES NOT CONSIDER NON-RATIONAL OR DECEIVE PERCEPTION.SO THAT ALL OF US WE IN THE COURSE, AS CHILDREN MAY STEPS NERVES ADULT.