Parents' time for children

Of course, every parent understands that children are the greatest value. But do they know about this themselves? As a rule, it is not difficult for you to show your children love and attention, but when your head and heart are occupied with completely different thoughts and emotions, it's not always possible to think about children.

In such grim moments, when you are seized with acute anxiety, stress or grief, the standard level of attention is no longer enough. For some reason, it does not even happen to read a fairy tale for the night or hold the child on his lap, not to mention going shopping with him or attending a football training session. The child already suffers from the tense situation in the house, and in this case it suddenly turns out that you do not come to his aid, but on the contrary, as if you are moving away from it. The only thing that he can get from you in excess is irritation and seemingly causeless quibbles. But this attention is not enough for him.

I understand that in this situation you do not have many opportunities to change something. Some life circumstances occupy all your attention and time, and turn you into a person that is not suitable for communication. It's hard to portray cheerfulness when your mother is deadly sick, you want to take the house for debts, you face dismissal, or one of the children is in hospital. Yes, in fact, no one will expect from you this in such circumstances.

Some crises pass quickly, but there are also those that last for weeks and months, if not years. And it often turns out that you have more than enough cares and no children. And yet, putting the interests of children above all others in any situation, you help yourself, too. You have an external incentive to live and struggle, and something that distracts you from immersing yourself in the abyss of your own experiences.

How can you let the children understand that they are the most important for you? The surest way is really to do so. If you are completely taken with pity for yourself and do not really think about anything else about anyone, it will be perfectly visible from the outside. You may have the most that there is a valid reason for suffering, but children will inevitably at the instinctive level catch that your own interests are higher for them than you. If this situation does not suit you, and you really want them to feel their paramount importance for you, you must put it into practice, and children can not not feel it. And even if they continue to complain from time to time that you do not do something like before, doubts about your own worth will not stop them.

IF YOU WILL BE COMPLETELY AWAITED BY COMPLAINTS TO YOURSELF AND NOT ABOUT ANYTHING ABOUT ANYWHERE OTHERWISE WILL NEVER BE THOUGHT, THIS WILL BE PERFECTLY VISIBLE BY THE SIDE.