Perfect child

The second rule says that you are not perfect. Now it's your children's turn. If you try to educate ideal children, you, and it's obvious, will not work. In addition, you will exert unnecessary pressure on them, and as you should already know, this is very bad.

And anyway, why do you need the ideal child ?Also what is it generally such? I personally can not imagine anything like this. All the children I saw who behaved themselves flawlessly, never wronged anything, tried their best to please their parents and teachers, studied well and always did their homework on time, were simply terribly boring.

And those children who were always the nicest to me were the brightest and most interesting personalities-they all had some remarkable flaw. They liked to play pranks, or they could explode if you argue with them, or sometimes went far in their jokes, or they had a penchant for laziness-chan. Over the years of my life I have met many beautiful children who later turned into amazing adults, but, putting my hand on my heart, I can not call any of them ideal. And thank God!

Children should not be a reduced adult. They must have the disadvantages from which an adult is supposed to get rid. If you raised an ideal child to ten years, then you can send it now to study for a banker, because the remaining years of childhood such a child is no longer needed. However, childhood is exactly what you need to be children. And in my opinion, it's even better if absolutely all child imperfection does not disappear with age. Who needs an adult child who never misses a mischievous spark in his eyes or a hint of a rash act, who does not have a drop of laughter and recklessness?

The only type of child that you should try to nurture is a person who will be able to carry with dignity and confidence the quality of his or her unique personality, while not causing pain and discomfort to others. Nothing more is needed. This is how most children grow up. And I'm sure that among them there is not one ideal.