The child has strengths

One of my cousins ​​suffered serious problems with training and physical coordination, so that he could not practice sports, play a musical instrument, draw, etc. Frankly, for many years it was very difficult to understand at all whetherhis ability to at least something. But his brother was very gifted musically, he often listened to music, and gradually it became clear that although Dan can not play himself on any instrument, but he has a wonderful ear. It was worthwhile to put a tape in the tape recorder, he literally from the first notes could guess the melody. So that was his strong point - in this he could furnish any!

Most children, of course, are in a better position than poor Dan. However, the example given by me shows that even the most problematic children can still surpass others in some way. Your children need to know what they are capable of and what their strengths are - it is extremely important for their adequate self-evaluation. You must help them as early as possible to find what they are really good at, if you want them to grow up with a proud head and a consciousness that they can give something to the world. Gradually, you can open with your child, not one but several of his abilities, but maybe he will have real talent in only one area. This is by and large not important. The main thing is to see the talents in the child in time and make sure that he also understands them.

Speaking of abilities, I do not mean that they must necessarily lie in the field of science, art or sports, although it is not bad. Maybe one of your children will have a wonderful memory, and he will always remind you that you forgot to make a shopping list. And maybe, one of them will be the best in the family to maintain order and always carefully arrange books and disks on the shelves. Whatever the child's talent - cooking, handling animals or something else - you must provide this talent with recognition and opportunities for development.

THE MAIN THING - TOMORROWS HAVE TO TALK IN THE CHILD OF HIS TALENT. .. AND THEY MUST NOT LIE TO LEAVE IN THE FIELD OF SCIENCE, ART OR SPORT.