hazing in the army only

BEGIN IT IN SCHOOL CORRIDORS AND SCHOOL BOARDS.

Hazing - not necessarily a mockery of the elders over the younger ones. This is just a special case. To this phenomenon it is necessary to attribute in general any suppression by more aggressive persons of defensive( defending) persons. Having studied the problem, including with the involvement of students from higher pedagogical universities( term papers, theses), I learned that EVERY teenager at any time

experienced the oppression of older and more aggressive guys. And here, for understanding, everyday psychology is not enough( "we are all psychologists").It requires not too complicated a very understandable, but all the same scientific concept, the fragment of which was drawn already in the course of the matter.

Many people have hidden and prominent shortcomings, unrecoverable inferiority. We talked about this above in the chapter on psychotypes. It is not so important in what it is expressed. This can be lameness, thinness, small height, irregular bite, disproportion in the face, cartilage, stuttering, rotten teeth. It can be oppressive poverty or insufficient mental ability to learn the program. And then a person tries to compensate( fill) the lack of any achievements. In sport, in teaching, in suppression of other people. Power is a frequent and powerful means of compensation. But the initial compensation grows into hypercompensation. A man builds up his muscles no longer only to match up with others, but to surpass them. This is how "hyper" manifests itself. Hypercompensation can be a source of positive."Ochkarik" rummages in books and becomes an erudite.

But hypercompensation often serves to form sinister features. The stocky hunchback Richard Gloucester becomes King of England Richard the Third, insidiously removing from the road the legitimate aspirants. This served as a plot of Shakespeare's tragedy, in which this reptile unfolded in its full "charm."But I also remember the trophy film The Tower of Death. There, Richard keeps puppet images of his rivals in a glass cabinet and, as they are destroyed, throws out the figures. He causes his brother Clarence to argue, whoever drinks more Malvasia wine, drowns Clarence in malvasia and also throws out his puppet image from the coveted cupboard. Thick and short, Napoleon carried social progress, developed sciences, but sowed death. For that humane Pierre Bezukhov and wanted to kill him. There are many such examples. They are especially common among paranoiac personalities.

This psychological mechanism of "hypercompensation of the inferiority complex" was first described by the student of Sigmund Freud, Alfred Adler. And this mechanism, as we are convinced, is universal.

But back to the children. The schoolboy hypercompensates due to the younger or simply weaker his complex of

incompleteness in relation to the elder or just to a stronger one. In particular, the situation with repetition in the lower grades is painful. Such as my classmates Yakovenko and Semenchenko. A child who has lagged behind in intellectual development from one-year-olds, "returns" the lost self-esteem in relation to his current classmates by suppressing them. This is possible due to superiority in physical strength and Martial Arts Skills, where he is ahead. This is reinforced by the connections to the one-year students who continue to study in the classroom, where he could not resist. Such hypercompensation is very dangerous. It suffers with her not only suppressed. The personal development of the overwhelming is sharply distorted. He learns to grovel before a strong and enjoy his violence. This is how "ordinary fascism" is born. On such hypercompensation you will not go far. Then they will still be seduced, convicted and even imprisoned. And they can be imprisoned for the rest of their lives. And even in general - the Nuremberg trial.

So what should we do, parents, with hazing in the school. .. It's awful. And you will teach your son to resist. Mentally balanced. Beats - let's talk. Stand up under attack. And before that, teach the young man all that is written in the first part of the "Labyrinth of Communication".In critical situations, of course, parents will have to intervene. .. But this is all symptomatic therapy. And most importantly - do not make your already aggressive guys just build muscle in the gym. Practice with them. .. PRACTICAL PSYCHOLOGY.