How to make your marriage successful

To date, the problem of divorce has reached an alarming scale in our society. Therefore, every person who has a family, or had it in the past, but has undergone a divorce, is interested in the experience of harmonious couples who, by overcoming conflict situations, successfully deepen and develop their relationships.
What are the conditions that must be met in order to receive happiness and satisfaction in marriage?
The main reason for a successful marriage is not sexual compatibility, as many people think, and not even common interests, although they undoubtedly play an important role in the relationship. The main reason for satisfaction with marriage is a sense of trust, respect and community, that is, when the spouse is also the best friend. It is the belief that the partner will come to the rescue in any situation, and caring for you is not burdensome to him, but pleasant.
In addition, the relationship in marriage strengthens the consciousness that your spouse is an interesting and versatile person. It is not only interesting and pleasant to communicate with him, but there is much that can be learned. Is this not the basis for a fruitful relationship? An example of this is the numerous marriages with a big age difference, when a spouse, wise with experience, attracts a young inexperienced partner, and over time their communication not only does not end, but on the contrary, they become each other even more interesting.

The stability of marriage is attached to the decision of the spouses to be together, whatever happens, on the threshold of the registry office. That is, they do not believe that they will act depending on this or that situation - if everything goes well, they live together, and if not, you can divorce. After all, such an installation does not help to establish mutual understanding. In complex situations, the consciousness that marriage is a commitment and responsibility, and not just pleasure, helps a lot. And if people decided to stay together, they are more resistant to difficulties in the relationship.
Very close people common goals. A really strong union is when people look not only at each other, but also in one direction. The enthusiasm of both spouses in common cause often negates small misunderstandings and disagreements between them, making them not only husband and wife, but also companions.
In general, it can be said that people who are married, position themselves as happier and more successful than those who are alone. The positive influence of marriage with its sense of community, security and interconnection makes life brighter, more comfortable and more joyful. Therefore, get married, learn to build relationships, and rejoice in your family for many years of marriage.