The iteroid puts the child in a golden cage, and everyone sees that it's golden, and only the child sees that the cage

Isteroids should remember this phrase all their parent;life.

And why is it a music school, a sport and so on? And then, that if the hysteroid mother herself has not achieved success in her artistic career, then let her at least try for her. The hysteroid will be satisfied that it will be at least the mother of an interesting remake on which the attention of others is "centered." This is the hypercompensation of their failures through children. And she almost sadistically causes the child to play scales, so as to boast of achievements. Often it is the hysteroid mother, * who does not manage to dominate the work and dominate

over her husband, or gradually losing her grip on her husband with age and spousal experience, increasingly concentrating her on children. Bake them and for the time being satisfied with this power. And an hysteroid is formed, a kind of heir to Tutti, whom everyone is rinsing around, everyone is worried about, running around, and he is capricious and jerking his leg. And then he himself, Tutti's heir, begins to educate himself in the image and likeness of his child, so that he can make up for his failures.

That's how the hysteroid dynasties arise. The hysteroid forms an hysteroid. He Wants to brag to the public with his child and puts it on a highchair, forcing guests to read a poem. Seryozhenka reads, applauds, praises, sets an example, and he begins to like being in the spotlight, and he becomes an hysteroid. Prof. Sc. psychiatrist Oleg Vasilievich Kerbikov said that the hysterical nature is formed by the type of the family idol.

Opposite picture. Parents in general are eager for success, say, on the stage. As a result, the child is entrusted to neighbors, given to a grandmother, taken to a village, abandoned in a boarding school or on the Internet. In any case, it is without sufficient supervision, so there is a risk of involvement in dangerous companies.

Sometimes an hysteroid mother begins to hate the child as the cause of failure. It's a child from an unfortunate husband, and there is a transfer. In addition, he interferes with her to organize a new married life. And even good moms, like in the movie "Winter Cherry", suddenly punish their child for nothing, and then cry.

With children, hysterics often scandal, are targeted by their sarcastic attacks. One mama and asteroid, competing with a daughter and asteroid, such as the male people: "There must be more, or else only jeans and bones remained from you."

Isteroids often require exceptional conditions for their child in school, exceptional attention. This can be used for the case: you want for the child exceptional conditions - let's together make exceptional conditions, and the hysteroid begins to be included in the activity in the school.

Completely different thing - schizoid parent. The schizoid does not care about the family. Children are abandoned in the house, maybe in the orphanage,

sometimes in the hospital. And on the Internet, of course finite. They in fact some obstacle for creativity which is more interesting. This is psycho-protective and with a certain dose of intellectualized cynicism is justified: my child will be taken care of by mankind. Or: what I represent, I know, but what will come out of my son - I do not know;that I will invest in it, even better, I will invest in myself.

But it may happen that the child for the schizoid father is also a creativity: to learn poems with him, to follow how he develops, to read the original pedagogical literature and then to apply what he has read in practice. The schizoid mother is a little empathic, emotionally cold. She does not know much about clothes, in fashion. She may have a face running, and the child is unclean. In the bathroom - hair and cat hair, and the child is not brought up in the spirit of love for purity. Do not forget about it and do not let these features of yours go.