do not be afraid of the child.

After listening to the talk about how much attention the children demand, you can imagine that they are in the world with a firm intention in any way to enslave their parents. It is not true. Your child is born to become a sensible and loving being.

Do not be afraid to feed it if you think that it is hungry. If you make a mistake, he simply will not eat.

Do not be afraid to love him and rejoice over him. Every child needs to be smiled, loved, talked to, caressed lovingly and tenderly, just like he needs calories and vitamins. This will turn him into a person capable of loving people and enjoying life. A child who does not receive enough love will grow cold and unresponsive.

Do not be afraid to satisfy his desires if they seem reasonable to you and if they do not enslave you. If he cries in the first weeks, it means he is uncomfortable for one reason or another - maybe it's hunger, or indigestion, or fatigue, or tension. The anxiety that you experience, hearing his crying, the desire to calm him, is also part of your nature. Hold it in your arms, shake it, walk with it - perhaps that's all he needs.

If you exercise care and kindness to the child within reasonable limits, this will not spoil him, he does not get spoiled immediately. Spoiledness comes gradually when the mother is afraid to rely on her common sense or when she wants to become a child's slave and encourages him to be a slaveholder.

Everyone wants their child to become obedient and to be easy to live with. But the child will also like to eat in due time, and later he will learn to eat neatly. The chair can be regular and irregular( if only it does not become too hard) depending on the needs of the body. And when he grows up and can understand more, you will teach him how to use the pot. He will get used to falling asleep at the same time and begin to get into bed on time at his own request. All of his habits naturally come in accordance with your family routine, he will need only a minimal guide on your part.