How to meet a girl on the Internet: what to write and where to start

Getting to know a girl is always a very exciting and difficult moment for any man of any age. Therefore, in order to overcome this stage of the relationship, many guys resort to online dating services, since it is much easier to get to know a girl on the Internet than in real life, but there are also subtleties that should be taken into account and this is what the article will be about today.

How to start dating a girl on the Internet?

Begin any acquaintance, whether it's virtual or real is better with a sign of attention, a compliment or a gift. If you want to get acquainted on a dating site with a beautiful girl, then immediately have to accept the fact that you will have more competitors than usual, so you must somehow stand out from this gray mass. The benefit of doing this is fairly simple, there would be only money. Many services provide an opportunity to make a gift in the form of a virtual toy or flowers, which will later be placed on the page with the girl's questionnaire. For special gifts, there is even the opportunity to present a VIP-status on the site, which allows you to significantly expand the capabilities of the girl's profile( decorate your page, be invisible, hide age, etc.).

We agree that the gift needs money, which is not always available in sufficient quantities, but we are now talking about your potential future. Do not you already feel sorry for 1-5 dollars? !In addition, if you would have met in real life, you would most likely have invited her to a cafe, restaurant, bought flowers, etc., which would cost a lot more harmless gift.

From all of the above, we sum up the first result: to start dating on the Internet with a girl is worth a virtual compliment - colors, VIP status, soft toys, etc. Such a gift in any case like the girl, she will pay attention to you, understand the fact, the fact that she really liked you, and you can take the next step.

What to write to a girl when meeting on the Internet?

Now we turn to the main thing and we can even say the final step on the way to acquaintance. Since it will depend on him to further your joint relationship: they will be friendly, loving, or generally will be absent.

There are several rules, which will include tips that you can write to a girl and what not:

• Never disclose the whole truth about the purposes of your acquaintance with it. The answer should always be the same: "I'm looking for a friend first of all, but there will be a lot of fate. ..".Even if you want to marry her, want children from her and live together for the rest of the day - do not write this. Some will understand this as a rally, others will be perceived for being childish and not serious. And of course you do not need to write about sex, if you are looking for a girlfriend for intimate relationships. Yes, you suck, but only in this case you can conquer the girl.


• Start the conversation with compliments to her. Appreciate the beauty of her hair, eyes, waist, long legs, flat tummy, etc. But just do not go for vulgarity - you do not need to point to her breasts, buttocks or thighs at the first message. This should be mentioned, but not now!


• Do not rush to take her phone number or make an appointment, 80% will refuse immediately. You should interest her for a start, and afterwards invite to the cafe.


• Watch for punctuation and expressions. Very much about you will tell your phrase and error. Excessive "literary" will show your pedantry, seriousness and even a little scare the girl. Be simpler, build sentences more concisely.


• Ask questions more often, talk less about yourself, unless she herself asks for it.


• More often call her by name, it bribes any person when he sees or hears his beautiful name.


• Before asking questions - check out her profile and ask questions based on him. Thus, you will have topics for conversation: hobbies, work, life principles, taste preferences, etc.


• You feel that the stock of ideas is running out - finish the conversation( just give an important reason) and suggest continuing it to the cafe for a cup of coffee.


• Be sincere in conversation, however, any fact is served beautifully. Even if you are an ordinary seller in a store, call yourself a trading consultant. Let there be a mystery in you.


• If she asked you about the availability of a car that you do not have. Get out proudly from the situation: "I'm saving money on the car. .. I do not want to trade out the cheap car industry!".If you are ashamed of the brand of the car( Tavria), then answer that for you the car is not a luxury, but a vehicle for movement.


• Do not pause in conversation! Try to ask her as many questions as possible, and as soon as you see that a particular topic causes her interest - develop it, ask leading questions and tell your own stories or read the news.


• Be easier! Do not learn certain phrases or sentences, your speech should be natural, but interesting.

If you can not think up those for a conversation, then read our article: . What to talk about with a girl.

Good luck!