How to celebrate a silver wedding - celebrate a silver wedding
Silver wedding in life is only once, so the preparation for it must begin in advance. And preparation is serious. After all, 25 years of life together - a confirmation of real feelings. For so much time, much has changed, but love has also led the way and has given the strength to "beat off" all the emerging problems. Have not thought how to celebrate a silver wedding to you?
New and old traditions of
A lot of traditions, both new and old, are timed to all the jubilees. Therefore, it is very desirable to remember interesting rituals on the day of your silver wedding.
For example, such a ritual as the first kiss. A couple of decades ago, the couple had tender and trembling feelings for each other, and this miracle has happened to them in years. What is the first kiss? It is uniqueness, mystery, beauty and romance. Let the day of the silver wedding begin with the kiss of husband and wife. He will truly resurrect the wedding day in memory.
Wash in the morning
No less romantic ritual - washing. On such a day it should be special. Do not know how to do it? Take the silver pitcher with her husband, draw water into it. Then, wash your husband three times and wipe your face with a linen towel. The husband should do the same with you.
Each washing is quite significant. The first helps to wash away the burden of years, it is believed that the spouses are getting younger. Second - it washes away all the sorrows and worries experienced in a quarter of a century. Water carries them with them. The third is the meeting of a new dawn, a new life.
Try to wash so that a little water is left in the jar. It must be carried out on the street or on the balcony, so that all water evaporates from it. Thus, sorrow and anxiety will depart from the future life. It is believed that the faster the evaporation of water, the happier will be life.
Exchange rings
The most important and most remarkable rite is the exchange of rings between husband and wife. It's like 25 years ago, when their mutual life was just beginning. It will be great if you hold this ceremony not just at home, but in the registry office. Although it's not so important where to celebrate a silver wedding, it's important with whom.
Spouses have lived hand in hand for a quarter of a century, and now are again exchanged, but for the moment silver rings. If there is a possibility you can call witnesses from your wedding, let them once again, as many years ago, confirm the love of heroes.
Such a ritual as the exchange of rings is best done when the sun is at its zenith. It is believed that if the sun shines brightly on the jubilee, then the feelings of the present jubilees also shine brightly.
Would not you like to be married on such a wonderful day as your silver wedding? It can be called almost the most suitable for this.
It is believed that the ceremony of exchange rings should be attended by the same guests that were at your wedding. And the bride herself, if desired, can put on a white dress. In addition, it is desirable that the guests at the celebration was not less than 25 people.
After exchanging rings, the spouses must remove their wedding rings and wear silver ones. They will get gold next time on their golden wedding and will put them on each other's fingers, like 50 years ago. Keep these rings you need very, very carefully, because they are a symbol of your love!
There is another interpretation of the ritual with the rings: when silver is worn over gold. The older generation does not recognize this tradition.
Other rituals
Do not leave the wedding celebration without a beautiful cake or a loaf, which you, like 25 years ago, will be slaughtered with your spouse. It is necessary to make so that, at least on a small piece, but enough, to each visitor of your holiday. After all, all the guests should share your holiday and your happiness.
You should not forget about champagne either, it's better to pronounce the first toast just under it.
If you celebrated your celebration at home, then before you start cleaning from the table, sit with your loved one for a table not yet dressed and arrange a tea party, remembering how wonderful the day was.
It is not necessary to be limited only to those rituals, which were described above. The main tradition is still the presentation of beautiful flowers. My husband needs to congratulate his beloved and give her a gift in the form of any flowers. What will it be? The most magnificent roses or maybe modest daisies? It does not matter. The main thing is that these flowers bring you joy.
How about a gift to ourselves? In order not to feel the burden of responsibility for the holiday, but to hold it as perfectly as possible and without any problems, invite a toastmaster. It will make your holiday really unforgettable.
Celebrate a silver wedding is usually pretty sumptuous, almost like an ordinary wedding. Therefore, it is necessary to hold all kinds of congratulations, competitions( it is possible to music), dancing.