How to get rid of unrequited love?
Unrequited love depresses, is the cause of bad mood and sleepless nights. The heart-felt experiences associated with this feeling torment both the unfortunate lover and the object of his sympathy. Few will agree to constantly be in the role of a sufferer suffering from unrequited love. I want to get rid of this condition, and as soon as possible. How to overcome unrequited love?
Turning unrequited love into mutual love is, of course, the most desired result of the fight against this heart disease. However, it is not always easy to achieve it, and sometimes it is completely impossible. What can you do to the hopeful lover?
The spectrum of actions here can be quite wide. For example, you can be carried away by the same hobby , as an object of love, and together visit tourist gatherings or jump with a parachute, go to rock concerts or simulate airplanes. As is known, common interests bring together.
However, has its own cons of .After being absorbed in the interests of your lover, you can lose your own face, your "I", to become only a shadow of the object of adoration. Is such a person worthy of mutual love in response to their efforts? Obviously not!
Therefore, wanting to get rid of unrequited love, do not forget about 's own uniqueness, try to be original and unique. Unrequited love is an excellent occasion for self-improvement, finding hidden talents and combating complexes. Let your lover see in your face a versatile personality, an interesting companion, the soul of the company. In this case, you are much more likely to receive the favor of an impregnable chosen one.
And it is quite possible that by acquiring new acquaintances and changing your image, you will get rid of the feeling of unrequited love and understand that you are too good for chasing a ghost of mutual feeling. And you will come to the conclusion that it is better to spend your precious time searching for a new - this time mutual - love and building real relationships, rather than sighing about unclaimed feelings.
By the way, about the new relationship. To fall in love with someone else is, perhaps, the most effective way to get rid of unrequited love. However, here there are quite typical mistakes.
In an effort to forget, revenge, make you jealous or prove to an indifferent lover( and in fact - to yourself) that you are worthy of love and are popular with the opposite sex, unfortunate lovers often rush to the extremes of .With special obsession they look for new relationships, sometimes creating their fictitious similarity, they hang around the neck to all representatives of the opposite sex( especially girls and women sin), seek to achieve intimacy more quickly. However, as a result of such temporary frivolous relations bring only disappointment, even greater emptiness in the soul, dissatisfaction with life.
Therefore, does not need to focus its attention on on fighting unrequited love or finding new relationships. Yes, the affairs of the heart are an important part of the life of any person. But most importantly - it's you, your feelings and emotions, you as a person. So try to pay attention to something else, to distract yourself and get carried away by something that is not related to the object of your unrequited feeling. Think about your family and friends, friends, immerse yourself in your work.
Just stop thinking that "without it I do not live," "without it, the light is not nice to me."Throw this nonsense out of your head! It's better to tell yourself that you are worthy of the best and that this is your lover, and not you, loses much, without answering you in return. Relieve yourself of the burden of dependence on this person, on his feelings( or rather, their absence) to you.
Do not try to prove anything, do not be humiliated, do not sacrifice anything "in the name", do not be obtrusive - all this in any case will not lead to anything good, except to pity from the beloved( but you are not doing this?).In your actions, proceed not from what he( she) likes, but from your own priorities. And if unrequited love brings pain - then it just does not belong in your life.
Having got rid of the shackles of unrequited love, without being dependent on the feelings of another person and starting a new life, you yourself will not notice how a new, real, mutual and only positive emotions - love will enter your life. And we wholeheartedly wish you this!