How to find friends and where to find them?
Today we will try to give you the most effective advice on where to look for friends and how to do them, then not lose.
Where and how to find friends
Before you look for a friend, you must love yourself. And you need to love, in spite of all the shortcomings that you hate in yourself( mercantile, arrogant, stingy, big belly, short legs, brittle hair, etc.).Until you do this, you can never find yourself a good and loyal friend. After all, all the people around us see only the person that we create ourselves, if we believe in ourselves, let's say that we are beautiful, kind and cheerful - the world too will be able to believe in this and will become closer to us.
How to Find Friends on the Internet
Finding friends online is one of the best ways to search for people who have certain complexes in real life. The network allows you to get acquainted even with those people with whom in ordinary life you hardly could get acquainted. A striking example of this are foreigners. In addition, on the Internet you can immediately communicate with several users at the same time, which significantly reduces the time.
Try not to look for those people who are in great demand without you, and those who, like you, can be bored on the Internet. Friends can be found on special services, such as dating sites, and you can even get acquainted at some forum or social network. To please another person, you must become an interesting person. Think about what's in you, what is not in others. If the raisins in themselves are not found, do not worry, you can create it, for example, a bizarre hobby or hobby.
If you want to make your photos even more like a new friend, be sure to process them in Photoshop, removing defects and finishing the advantages. Learn how to process photos, as this can often come in handy in life. However, do not overdo it with processing, because if you meet in life, you can simply not be recognized and passed by.
How to find friends in Odnoklassniki
To find friends in the social network "Odnoklassniki" you must, first of all, register in it, and also correctly fill out your page, as it will be watched by all your potential friends and girlfriends. Try to collect in it the most positive moments from your life, and also tell about all your positive traits. However, do it without lying or without exaggeration, so as not to appear as a pacifier.
As a rule, positive, successful and open people always attract the same good people. Therefore, place on your page only those photos on which you have turned out successfully and beautifully. Add photos from your holiday, perhaps with someone traveling, saw something, somewhere walked. For more information, do not just name the photo: "Yalta beach", but add in the comments: "Here we often walked in the evenings and looked at the stars."Such an offer will indicate your romance, carefree and positive attitude to life.
Feel free to spread your creations on your page, for example: photos of cooked dishes or baked goods, photos of a renovated car, photos of beadwork, or self-brewed soap, etc. This you point to your hobby or hobby, thereby prove that you are a keen person and have certain abilities.
When searching for friends in classmates try to communicate only with those who have real photographs, and not "fake"( fake).If from the questionnaires of these people breezes kindness and sincerity, then you will quickly get along with him, and a friendly relationship will develop between you.
How to find friends on Skype( Skype)
The Skype program is rarely used to search for friends, but you can also find interesting personalities in it that will later become great friends for life. First of all you need to look for people who are most similar to you - also often on the network, also like to communicate by correspondence or in video mode, but even by age you may be similar.
Try to look for friends of the same sex, otherwise there may be more sympathy between you than friendly relations, although of course there is nothing wrong with it, but just looking for a girl or a boyfriend for relationships needs a little different than a friend.
As in the last paragraph, we also advise you to fill in the information about yourself to the maximum. Do not forget that you are getting acquainted in the network and you can learn about you only in communication or on the questionnaire. Since it is difficult to open up in the first minutes of communication, you can reveal yourself in the questionnaire. When filling out your profile in skype, specify links to your pages on social networks, they will also help to find out the person in addition. In the column "About yourself" write not only serious things, but also joke. Even trivial jokes, such as "I have a black belt for cross-stitching," can still cause a smile on the reader's face.
Skype was originally created for video communication, so when searching for friends, you need to be prepared for the fact that a potential friend can not only write you a message, but also call or send a video call. Be prepared for this! In order not to frighten a person on the screen, try to properly clean up your room: clean up, remove unnecessary things behind your back, and vice versa, add there those items that would best display your hobbies.
How to find friends on the "VKontakte"
Friends are very often looking for a means of social network "VKontakte".On the one hand, this is the right decision, since it concentrates the maximum number of people who use the Internet. Of course, this site is not created for dating, but under certain conditions it can be considered such. First of all, it is necessary to take into account the fact that users initially come into contact with boredom or loneliness, so you have every chance to find a friend here. In addition, when choosing people with whom you would like to communicate, you must remember that every person wants to communicate only with an equal person, or more successfully himself. After all, if you write to a person who lives in New York, has a well-paid job, a beloved wife and children, he is unlikely to want to talk with a resident of distant Kazan, who has not a penny behind, no education, no purpose. Why would a successful person need extra cargo? !And yes, a person from New York will think that they will want to communicate with him only for personal gain. Therefore, first of all, choose people according to their status. If they are only set up to communicate with successful people, then try to fill out your page in the following way:
- Exclude from it all the photos where you are dressed unattractively or tasteless;
- Remove those photos that show how you live( if your apartment is far from ideal);
- Do not add photos in which your acquaintances or relatives do not correspond to the status or position to which you so strive;
- Create a separate album of your desires, where you publish all those goals( cars, homes, places of rest, etc.) to which you aspire in your life.
How to find friends on Facebook
The social network Facebook is very popular abroad for our countries, so this network is relevant if you are looking to find friends around the world. For example, in the US, Facebook is more popular than Google's search engine. To find friends who live abroad, you need to know foreign languages, so try to learn them, you can certainly use constantly online translators, but this is not the most convenient way out of the situation.
We do not recommend getting acquainted with emigrants, since not all of them are good people. Often they are fixated only on their future, and their friends are of little interest, and especially from those countries from which they themselves left. The indigenous inhabitants of foreign countries( the United States, Germany, Italy, etc.) are much more friendly.
To contact with you, a person less popular in this network will go faster, that is, he should not have many friends, otherwise he will not be able to physically manage, answer everyone for messages and questions. Start a friendship from afar, do not need to write him a long message that you are looking for friends, and he can become that person. Do not impose yourself. First, start commenting on his photos, statuses, links that are laid out, etc. Most likely, in the comments will begin communication. Do not forget to put "Like" under the photos you like, and duplicate links on your page. That is, do everything to show what kind of person is interesting. Compliments in the comments also serve as a positive factor.
However, spend time not only on his page, but on his own, too. Try to publish the most interesting news, pictures, personal photos, interesting your thoughts and events. If you are oriented to English-speaking people, then naturally your page should be in this language so that they can always read it.
How to find friends on Twitter
Twitter is one of the most popular services on the Internet today. It is used by almost all modern people, from a schoolboy in Tver to the world famous star, the Madonna. Here you can quickly find friends by interests, especially if you are fond of, something unusual( collecting dried butterflies, learning the history of vampires, learn magic, etc.).In addition, on Twitter you can find people who "fanate" from the same performers or groups as you.
To find friends, just use the search and look for tweets for the topic you are interested in. Finding interesting personalities, try to immediately "foul" them, adding to your tape, collecting 10-30 candidates, stop and try to read their tapes now, most likely not all of them you like, having eliminated more than half, again continue searching in the same way. So, select about 100-200 interesting tweeter. Then start watching them, reading their tweets, doing retweets, leaving questions, giving advice, expressing your thoughts on this or that occasion, etc. That is, do everything to be noticed, as an active person, who is interested in the same topic.
With this communication, do not forget to publish interesting tweets yourself, if they are unique and interesting, you, most likely, too, "zafolovat" and begin to read. After 2-4 weeks of such correspondence, you will already form for yourself from 5 to 15 persons who show the greatest interest to you. It's with them that you need to start a friendship. Write them in private messages, ask them to write you their social pages or contacts( icq, qip, skype, etc.), where you could communicate more closely on common topics.
Find a friend by correspondence
Dating sites - this is a great place where you can find a friend by correspondence. Do not be embarrassed by the fact that you registered on such a site. If you look closely, you will find there a lot of people and probably even acquaintances who have been using this service for a long time. About five years ago, dating on the Internet was considered something if not shameful, then certainly not what a girl or a guy should be proud of. But time has passed and everything has changed. The young generation literally grew along with the worldwide network, so it's no surprise that dating services are so successful with them.
However, registering on such a site, clearly understand the purpose of your acquaintance, answer yourself honestly - you are looking for a friend or a soul mate, since these are two completely different directions, each of which requires a special approach. Although it often happens that you are looking for a friend, but you find your love for life.
Getting acquainted on the site, try to be an open and sincere person, since such a person is able to attract positive and interesting personalities to himself. Telling about yourself, do not exaggerate, say everything as it is in fact, without falsehood. Such honesty bribes the interlocutor and in return he will also start to open.
Try not to be interested in the person with things that he does not speak about willingly, if he wants to - he will tell you, and if he does not, then it's unpleasant for him to continue the conversation on the chosen topic. Do not hurry to switch to correspondence in ICQ or by E-mail. Give him and yourself the opportunity to get to know each other better, perhaps you do not fit, each other, and giving your contacts, it will be difficult to "get rid" of communication.
We can not hide that on the Internet there are still scammers on dating sites, so never hurry to call the exact address of your residence, your phone numbers and of course do not go to a meeting with someone who is not really familiar with. We are not saying that do not send money to unknown persons and do not say the numbers of your credit cards. In general, first time with each new person observe, be vigilant and adhere to elementary safety rules.
How to find friends by interests
Find friends by interests you can not only on the Internet, but in real life, for this, there are still various sections and courses where you can dance, fitness, aerobics, martial arts, modeling, drawing andother hobbies. Here it is possible to meet new friends.
However, if you are still attracted to online dating by interests, then we can offer you to register on thematic sites, because for every hobby there are already websites and even entire portals where you can chat on forums and chats talking on interesting topics.
Finally, we would like to wish you to find as many people as possible who in the near future will become true friends for you. Never give up in your search, even if it seems to you that the whole world has turned away from you, remember that loneliness is not the best way out of the situation.
And we would very much like to know, but how exactly are you looking for new friends? !Where do you meet them and in general, how does this happen? !