Resentment of the child

Every child in the depths of his soul hides anger at the world of adults. He takes offense at them for the fact that adults never take into account what the children feel, because they are still children and they "did not grow enough" to be sympathetic. Children are sincerely convinced that adults ignore them, do not take them seriously and do not take their point of view into account when making decisions. And you know what? They are absolutely right.

We behave this way. Well, maybe, all the same not always, but almost always. I myself am a sinner, and have not yet seen in my life parents who would have acted differently. If we are at all thinking about this, we tell ourselves that all this is because we know better what is good for the child and what is bad. This is indeed true in some cases, but not in all.

In some limits this is inevitable. I'm talking about such things as the desire of most children to go to bed later than necessary, to eat exclusively chocolate and ice cream and to run from school to the beach every school day. Well, about this we know that it is possible and that it is impossible, so we are obliged to make children act in our way, however even here we can look at the situation with their eyes. In fact, personally, I believe that if children are left to their own devices, they will very quickly behave much more intelligently than we expect them to.

Do not forget, children often see the world around them quite differently from us. But even if our view of something coincides, we still do not think about it. There is nothing surprising in that, feeling this attitude towards themselves, they can become extremely stubborn. It is very important to explain to them that you can understand their point of view.(If you can not, then you just have to ask, and I'm sure you'll be happy to explain.)

NOTHING IS AWESOME THAT, FEELING TO THEMSELVES, THEY CAN BE BROUGHT TO THE RARE.

Once I was going to leave home with my children, and one of them was sitting in front of the TV at that time. I told him to turn off the gear and go into the car. He snapped. I harshly explained that we should take one person from the station, and this is more important than the TV program. We began to argue and went off in earnest, and already both regretted it, but could not stop. At some point in the dispute, I caught myself in a puzzled thought: "Could not you have solved it all somehow calmer?"