Different schemes of family spending time

The overwhelming majority of traditional families( especially those that are arranged according to the scheme "two parents - two children"), as a rule, spend a lion's share of time next to each other. Even if one of the parents goes to work, on the weekends they necessarily rest with the whole family. Among my acquaintances there are a lot of such families, and it is usually accepted that this is the right scheme.

Well, in general, yes. .. and no. Good, too, should be a little bit. In addition to the all-family pastime, there is also a need in which not all its members participate, and in all possible combinations:

• each of the children must necessarily be alone with each of the parents;

• All children - with one of the parents;

• both parents spend time with one child while others are somewhere else;

• in families where children are three or more, two of them can stay with one of the parents, and the third( the rest) with the other. Next time, share it differently.

This scheme gives you the opportunity to establish a special relationship with each child. Suppose the first child cooks lunch with one of his parents, and walks with another. And the second child reads one book, and plays football with the other. If each child has a special occupation, which they share necessarily with only one of the parents, a feeling of exclusivity arises in them.

IS REQUIRED AND SUCH A COMMUNICATION IN WHICH THE FAMILY MEMBERS DO NOT PARTICIPATE, IN ALL POSSIBLE COMBINATIONS.

Such a system is especially useful if your family has adopted or non-native children. If you use the proposed scheme, you will be able to establish closer contacts between all family members, regardless of the "blood" relationship, and avoid the situation when children are always exclusively with the "native" parent.

Naturally, for single parents all this is much more difficult *.However, in this case it is worth using any opportunity to stay with the child( children) while the others are under someone else's supervision. And if you could allocate time for such communication in a closer circle( maybe while other children are visiting friends), you should not use it to clean the house, rejoicing that it has finally become quieter.