Family and politicians

Those parents who think that it is possible to use only specific psychological family counsel is short-sighted. In life, the personal ambitions of princes and the most that are not small splinters in the psyche of any of us are not rigidly but firmly connected. This is the problem of "me and politicians 3 ka", well, "family and politics."

There is a capacious expression: IF WE DO NOT FIND POLICY, THEN THE POLICY WILL TAKE US.This is not my aphorism, but I like it. Politics can become very much your family problem. When the boy is five, the army is far away;but now you are looking - fifteen, and you are thirty-five. .. You can still live your life and think about marrying your son, or at least about how he starts to run after the girls. But no, parents of boys will have to think about how they will serve in the army. Or how to save them from the army. And then bribes will begin later, attempts to "mow" through medicine. The boy will need to or give birth quickly to children, but it's timid to expect that this privilege will be canceled. .. Or by any means entering the university, but be wary of what will suddenly come or that the military chairs will suddenly cancel. Or hide in the village, with friends. All this is shaking. You will be shaken. And you will shake.

Protection of the Fatherland is holy. But "state people" somehow understand this holiness in two ways. His children from the hot spots otmazyvayut. And our children are sent to hot spots. Let's clarify.

If our country is attacked - Bonaparte or Hitler - then total mobilization. And we are all volunteers. In the forty-first, my father, leaving me, a one-year-old, my mother's family, went with all the Ifts to the front. It was not me, but he went, went through a lot of bloody battles, got captured under Yartsev, fled, was repressed, and then rehabilitated. But, educated by him in the spirit of "proletarian internationalism," during the Caribbean crisis in the year 96 I submitted a statement to the Komsomol board of Irkutsk asking me to send me to Cuba "as a medical worker or a soldier."Youth was still wandering about in blood. I then did not think that if the Caribbean crisis had escalated into a nuclear catastrophe, it would have been so brief that I would not have got to Cuba before, and all of us would have met on our way to the Andromeda nebula. The quick-tempered Khrushchev nevertheless thought better of it and got along with Kennedy. .. Well, that's not the point. I said this all in order to discuss that if this is so globally, then I'm not against drafting into the army. Incidentally, the sons of Stalin still fought, the eldest son of Khrushchev - died in battle. Now everything has changed. ..

And in peacetime. .. Well, the boy does not want to obey officers and generals who are not like BenLoaden, but can not cope with their hazing. Well, he does not want to build a dacha for them and go to the toilet with a song and a song. Believes beneath his dignity. In general, he does not want to waste time, which he could

spend more profitably for himself, for his country and for the world.

Everything must be solved humanively. It is proposed for a long time already a simple thing, which for some reason they do not want to introduce, is a contract army. In peacetime, the contract army is the only thing that can and should be done. Let the government officials hire people who do not need an accurate analytical balance, but which with a high degree of accuracy fall into the target and are engaged in physical preparation with great zeal. Let it be much more, in fairness more, pay them for the risk. They want it. And we will earn them( our taxes) on their earnings and take care of their psychological problems. And we will be morally grateful to them for protecting us. And let them for a high moral assessment on our part and for a very serious material reward - resolve issues in hot spots.

But the actual total mobilization in peacetime is not justified by anything. Especially demagogic slogans about serving the Motherland. The Swiss philosopher-dramatist Friedrich Dürrenmatt has a phrase in the play "Romulus the Great";"When the state starts killing people, it always calls itself a homeland. .."

We need to get involved in politics before your son has problems with the army. Late to become members of the committees of soldiers' mothers when your nineteen-year-old son disappeared without a trace. It is necessary to seek from the authorities that the contract army be introduced as soon as possible. By the way, I already complained that men leave these problems, giving everything to the soldiers' mothers. They are fathers, and their souls should have no less pain for their sons than for their mothers.

Policy intersects with family problems and much more. Forcibly destroyed capitalism. After all, the plan was to destroy exploitation. But the nationalization of property did not lead to justice. There was a caste of communist leaders - the new exploiters. I will make a small extract from Bertrand Russell, who visited Russia in 920.Lenin was still alive and working. Here is what Russell said: "Virtually they alone have power, so they can have countless advantages. Most of them - far from falling into luxury - eat better yet than the whole people. Only people with a certain political weight can

have a phone or a car. Opportunities to go for a train ticket, make purchases in Soviet stores( where the price is about fifty times lower than in the market), go to the theater and so on, of course, more for those close to power than ordinary mortals. And in a thousand ways the Communists can achieve a more prosperous life than the rest. In addition, they are less burdened by obsessive attention from the police and the Extraordinary Commission. "Further we know that the stratification has grown. And the impoverishment of the people under the communist system reached a critical threshold. This system was just as far from justice as the society under Emperor Nicholas II.How can we explain that, given such our land wealth, we were given six hundred square meters for dachas at one time? Why did the CPSU behave in such a way? This can only be explained by stupidity. The notorious empty shelves in the shops. The people became disillusioned with communism as an ideology. And so "communism" collapsed overnight, as it arose. Thank God, without a big civil war. But the good things would go ahead. And then there is so much suffering - and all for nothing. And yet our "enlightened intelligentsia" began to call us back to capitalism. At the same time to the wildest. And here the initial accumulation of capital is stimulated by any means. Capital concentrates in the hands of greedy people who buy themselves locks in Monte Carlo. And most families do not have enough square meters of living space for the birth of children. As there was not, and there is no money to build a summer cottage where you can normally rest, elementary life is not adjusted. .. The purchase of a house with a share of land is 7,000 rubles - this is 700 minimum salaries. The old women say: let's have 5000 rubles for my hovel, I will not deceive you, pay for electricity, and that's all. But it is clear that the officials will lay their hands on this "illegal act" and that this is not the acquisition of housing and land for the family, but only, self-indulgence is one for those who do not consider these five thousand for money. All this is the policy towards the family..Ignoring the psychological problems in the family, dictated again by politics, leads to the absence in educational programs of such subjects as psychotechnics of communication and building relationships. Quarrels that could not happen,

turn into scandals that could go out. As a result - a huge number of divorces.

And most importantly. Policies that foment in every way in people a greed for profit, which does not prevent exploitation for the sake of profit, leads to strife in families."I have never been anywhere, not in Paris, or in London. .." And the husband of the skin climbs out and sometimes goes to crimes, just to please the beloved wife, which the competitors pretend to be. As a result, crime is growing and growing. But this is also a policy

STARRY TO LIVE FOR YOUR ACCOUNT, AND NOT FOR ANOTHER.IT CAN BE PRESSED, BUT CAN NOT BE PRESSED.

Only this way you can find peace of mind and self-confidence. In other words, you can not take away the results of labor from people. You can get rich, but at your own expense. Then the rich will not be a sinner, but the poor will be an envious person. You can and should join the exchange without cheating. The market does not necessarily have to be capitalistic. It is possible and necessary to give the surplus of one's creative work( surpluses can appear only with creativity) to other people, not necessarily poor. The poor should be supported, creating jobs for them.

Only with the introduction of these principles into the mind of every person will stop the insane race of "possession", according to Fromm. On my

view, these principles should be propagated from the kindergarten, from the development centers, from the school. Through the media. .. And when they master all, there will be no "golden billion"( white bone) on Earth, but there will be no Bulladen kamikaze that threatens to bring the end of the world closer.

The question is, how feasible it is in principle. Everything depends on the collective consciousness( and not at all from the collective unconscious).From ideology. We know that not only personality is raised. PEOPLE ARE BORROWING.Christianity, early, and not today, settled in the souls of even the rich Romans. And people perished with the name of Jesus Christ on their lips for faith. Hitlerism eclipsed for a time the consciousness in the general cultural German nation. Stalinism was imposed on the Soviet people in just two decades. BenLaden brings up his kamikaze. The ideology of Americanism as a way of life has recently come to the fore. However, if this ideology is not overcome and takes possession of the whole world, a terrible catastrophe can not be avoided.

Of course, if psychologists in schools do not educate people in the spirit of humanistic psychology, but problems of left-handedness and training of perceptual sensitivity( I like to exaggerate), then it is possible NOT TO SUCCEED.And it is necessary to have time.

But back to the everyday. ..