Talk about sex

It's not easy for most of us to talk about sex. If this is easy, it usually happens when we are talking about some minor details. Talking about sex and its most important aspects is always difficult because it concerns some very personal details of our lives, affects our self-esteem, and we feel our vulnerability at the same time.

However, such conversations are very important for us if we live with another person and have a full sexual life.

During puberty, we often talk about sex. Boys usually brag to their friends about their sexual victories( usually invented).Thus, they supply each other with scraps of information obtained from the most incredible sources.

In girls, romantic love always stands in the foreground, and they rarely talk about the anatomical details of the structure of the male body. They usually talk about how to behave during menstruation, and discuss all the pros and cons of these or other types of bras. If parents do not usually go into details when it comes to the birth of children or about sex, the adolescents themselves often know much more about this, including what their parents would prefer not to talk about. Of course, parents will never explain to teenagers what masturbation is and what pleasure one can experience when masturbating. As for educational institutions, they should talk with their students about sex. However, in the learning process, only the biological aspects of sex are considered, accompanied by meager comments on sexual relations. All this does not create an atmosphere in which everyone would like to talk about sex. Many of us can rarely talk about sex openly and at ease, because it seems to us that in this way we seem to allow other people to invade the intimate aspects of our sex life. Women, by the way, are much more honest and frank when discussing problems in sex, but usually only with their girlfriends. As for men, they are more closed and

prefer not to touch on such topics as with women, and with men.

So, the truth is that in our sexually enlightened society we prefer to keep silent about sex, especially the male part of the population. But, at least, we feel comfortable when we start talking about it with a person for whom it is just as important as for us - with our sexual partner. And it is a great pity that this happens, because talking about sex "before", "during that" or "after that" can deplorably affect the formation of relationships, and even pleasure.