How to let go of past relationships - let go of the past
Great happiness, when the relationship of two loving people develops cloudlessly, but, unfortunately, life sometimes surprises unpleasant surprises, the result of which are broken hearts and ruined serene happiness. In this case, as it is not sad to realize, the bitter moment of parting becomes an inevitable fact. After a heavy parting with a close person, the surrounding world immediately fades, everything that is happening loses its meaning, and the withering soul of a melancholy often turns into a deep depression. It's not easy to get back your peace of mind. Undoubtedly, the most effective medicine for a wounded soul in this case will be the beginning of a new love relationship. But what if a wound in the heart does not heal for a long time, and sad memories constantly torment the soul? As a rule, the weighty baggage of experiences, sufferings and disappointments, acquired in a past life, becomes a serious obstacle to the acquisition of peace of mind and new happiness.
Once in such a difficult life situation, of course, you can seek advice from a psychologist. But for different reasons, not every one of us can afford it. In this case, it is necessary, as they say, to gather into fist all your willpower to figure out on your own how to let go of past relationships without outside help.
Life goes on. ..
If you are not your enemy, then you will have to fill your soul emptiness with a new meaning of life, that is, the search for a new relationship. Continuing to live past grievances, you gradually turn your life into hell while simultaneously destroying yourself from within. And in this state, you can hardly establish good relations with the person you like. Do not look for the guilty in this situation, in any case do not feel sorry for yourself and do not seek to "glue together the broken vase," however beautiful it might seem. Do not force yourself into a corner. Leave all negative experiences in the past and, without delay, soon start a new life!
It is clear that after experiencing a terribly unpleasant moment of breaking relations, a person becomes much more demanding to the opposite sex. Most likely, at the stage of acquaintance, you will unwittingly begin to look for flaws in a new challenger for your heart. Try not to compare your new acquaintance with the person you once loved and who, unfortunately, gave you emotional experiences. Look for dignity in your chosen one, thanks to which you can quickly forget the person who caused you mental wounds. Focus your attention on every wonderful moment spent with a new partner. Gradually, your sad memories will disappear to nowhere, freeing the place of happiness and joy.
Let's say your new relationship has developed successfully and you finally decided to live with your new partner. It seems at first glance everything is going well. But if you still feel that the wormhole of the past days has not completely let you down, it means that another attempt to create a serene family happiness is under serious threat. You should clearly understand that this will happen as long as you continue to cherish and cherish broken dreams and memories of an unsuccessful past life, thus devastating your heart and contributing to the deterioration of real relationships. Do not condemn yourself to loneliness.
Perhaps, you will be helped by the realization of the fact that all the troubles and difficulties experienced bring up our character, making it stronger. Remember that every pain is an invaluable life experience that you need to unconditionally accept. Try to learn from each trouble something useful - who knows, maybe in the future this experience will be useful to you. Life experience and wisdom gained from it are positive aspects of the past, and accumulated grievances and fears are negative. If fate has given you a bitter life lesson, use it for your own good. Learn to understand yourself, in your thoughts and feelings. Live for today. Tune in for a positive. With such a life-style, you are just doomed to be lucky!