How to get rid of your opponent yourself
Nobody wants to fall into the corner of a love triangle. And there is absolutely no use in hysterics and accusations of your unfaithful lover. Choose one of the proposed strategies to exclude a rival from your life. ..
Your advantage
The appearance of a rival can happen with any girl. One day they just find out that apart from themselves, there is another woman in the life of a beloved man. What to do in this situation? Is it possible to remain with the traitor and pretend that nothing has happened, while quietly suffering in the meantime? Or maybe better remember everything that was good in your relationship and part with the world?
Agree that no matter what the decision to take it you need only a "sober" head. And first you need to determine: Do you need this fight for the man who betrayed you? Do you need it? Then read how to get rid of your opponent.
You have before it a considerable advantage - a good understanding of all the advantages and disadvantages of your loved one. It is necessary to use it.
Discrediting rival
This strategy will appeal to girls who are inherently passionate and risky. You will have to be a detective and an actress in one person. Your main hobby can be a wonderful sense of humor, cunning and resourcefulness. You can even not show your beloved what you know about his novel.
Your main task is to discredit your rival in the gases of your man. It is not necessary, of course, to make fights and tantrums. There are much more effective ways: laughter, for example.
Try to make fun of your new favorite passions. Just do not go to personalities. It is possible to ridicule not her, but a similar style in clothes, manner of talking and so on. Believe me, your man himself will draw parallels. You must make it very clear to your rival that it should not be in your territory.
In order for this strategy to succeed, you should know about your man's lover if not all, then very much:
- age;
- family and social situation;
- earnings.
You do not know how to find out? Very simple - connect the logic. For example, your guy lingers in the evenings at work, most likely, he has a novel with a colleague. More men are not averse to making romances with their past girls.
Thoroughly collect information and act. Do so that all the weaknesses of the mistress of your man appear before him in all their "glory."
Become friends
This strategy is suitable for those who are well versed in people. Become a diplomat who does not fully disclose his intentions, but is leading his own uncovered game. Try to get used to the image of the girl, neither a dream nor a spirit not suspecting about a possible deception.
You have one goal - to find a common language with your rival and make friends with her. Only when you enter into her trust, you can start your "work".
Get closer to your opponent and then you can control her actions. Imagine what kind of trump card gives you such a "friendship":
- Your man's lover will always be in your sight;
- You can better know the nature of the girl and her plans for your loved one.
If you understand that by its nature it is a predator, prepare for battle and lead the work of a real partisan. We need to be afraid of revelations and control every action, it can just as easily manipulate you.
If the opponent turns out to be a quiet and peaceful girl, it is quite possible that she herself will leave the battlefield, realizing that she fought for someone else.
The main thing: make sure that your loved one learns about your "friendship".The first reaction of her will, of course, is fright. And it will become much more difficult for him to deceive you psychologically. Who knows, maybe he will break this connection himself. ..
Take a great interest in other
Are you an intelligent and attractive girl who understands that there are many other men in the world? Yes, the betrayal of a loved one will knock out of the rut and hit hard for vanity - no one wants to stay in the loser. Do not know how to eliminate the opponent? You can press the lever, which must necessarily work - the sense of ownership of your man. Jealousy is the feeling that is inherent in us by nature itself. Maybe you'll make the instincts work in your favor?
You do not need to arrange combat, you just need to make your loved one jealous to the impossibility. Especially when your new fan will be at least something better than your beloved bettor. Believe me, you do not have to wait long for the result: the opponent will disappear, as if she was not there. And what's your favorite? He will start conquering you with a new power, completely forgetting about someone else. Just do not overreact the stick: let him GUESS about your adventures, but does not have any real evidence about them.
Change yourself
Want to change the world, start with yourself. First you need to calm down and analyze everything. If your loved one has gone to the left, and no matter what the reasons, you may need to reconsider your attitude not only to him, but to yourself? Maybe you just spoiled him, by breaking off to him at his first call. Then do not be surprised that he wanted something new, extreme. But from any situation there is a way out.
Forget about everything except yourself. After all, if you respect yourself and love, just as your man will treat you. Do not concentrate on your favorite, no matter how wonderful it seems to you. Otherwise, the time will come and he will simply become bored with you.
You need to live a life brightly, communicate with a huge number of people, buy yourself everything you just want and do not let your beloved think that you belong to him alone. It will be better if he tries to conquer you every day. And for other women then he simply will not have any time, and no desire.
Of course, there is no universal and suitable recipe for all, without exception, because all situations are individual. It is best to periodically arrange a nice little shake-up: to become new to him! Throw out of your head all the available stereotypes, the main thing your weapon is unpredictability. Change, all sides of your relationship and then your man will not want to look for someone on the side.