Why am I such a fool?
"And why am I such a fool?" - this rhetorical question was posed to itself by each of us at least once in our life. And the reason for indignation of a loved one can be oh so much: from falling in love with the most that neither is a terrible goat and ending with another purchase of delinquent cosmetics "but at a discount of 50%."And why are we sometimes so stupid and naive?
The reason is the first. Love
A woman in love, uniquely, rarely can think adequately, and therefore automatically turns into the rank of the most real fools. Simply if it was lucky, and the chosen one was a man at least where, it turns out that the choice is correct and calling yourself stupid is completely inappropriate. But if he broke all the dreams and turned out to be the most ordinary womanizer-drunkard-lazy-moto-hustle( necessary to emphasize), and you still continue to adore him in secret - that's when you will finally ask yourself: "Why am I such a fool?"
Exit from the situation is simple and complicated at the same time - immediately stop loving. How does the shroud of love fall off, along with the pink glasses of unrealized hopes - so immediately the brains turn on and the next question hurries to replace the previous question: "And how could I love this?" The most important thing is not to fool yourself with this head, but avoid such mistakes in the future. However, real fools always fall in love with men with the same vices.
The reason is the second. Herd instinct
Women are very susceptible to him, especially if the question stands for edge, i.e. It concerns purchases of clothes, cosmetics, perfumes and other purely feminine nonsense. This can also be attributed to actions in terms of relations: it is urgent to get married, because all the girlfriends have already gone there;Urgently give birth to a child, because all around already a long time ago became mothers;urgently to achieve career growth, because everyone is eager for this.
As a result, it turns out that the dress acquired by the super-operation sits terribly, the cream bought on the advice of the girlfriend causes a terrible allergy, the husband and the child are not at all happy, but to guide people is not your calling."Lord, why am I such a fool?" You sigh, longing for the wasted money-time-forces.
What should I do? Stop regretting what is lost - it is better to regret what can be lost if you continue in the same spirit. Focus on everything only on your own opinion( if you do not have it - immediately decide on this!), Build your priorities in life and do not let someone else's opinion or example put pressure on your decision. The reason is third. Heredity
Sadly, but usually female nonsense is inherited. Mother of the fool rarely grows up a clever daughter. And even the daughter's "mistakes of youth" are often absolutely identical to the mother. Against genes can not trample, as they say.
If you understand that you can not get rid of the diagnosis of "fool", try not to struggle with it, but use it for your own purposes. By the way, many wise women often pretend to be fools to achieve what they want. Follow their example, you do not need to pretend! Jokes-jokes( and seriously answer the question: "Why am I such a durr?", As you understand, it's simply impossible) - but still it is worth trying to reconsider your life so that such questions do not appear in your beautiful head. It will be much better if you say more often about yourself positively: "What kind of clever girl!" Or "That's what I do!" We sincerely wish you this!