How to behave with a man - Glamius.en

The best way for a fair sex to attract the attention of a man is flirting. A flirtation is a game in which the main thing is the ability to get information( preferably, reliable) about the feelings of the opposite side. For this, it is necessary to understand the body language, which is more truthful than the words of a person - gestures, postures, and the expression of the eyes. Psychologists believe that it is on non-verbal communication that from 60 to 80% of the initially received information about the interlocutor and potential partner.

Acquaintance

It is necessary to flirt where both men and women are attuned to a romantic relationship, for example, at a party. Unfortunately, in the workplace, flirting attempts are almost never welcomed, as they distract from fulfilling tasks. But how to behave with a man to make an acquaintance?

Try the following tactics:

• first, determine which men are open for communication, exclude those who come with a spouse or drink too much;
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• second, select the most attractive for yourself;
• third, start non-verbal communication and get a confirmation of reciprocity;
• Fourth, tie a conversation with the object of flirting.

The most difficult thing in this tactic is non-verbal communication, i.e.communication without words. It is difficult enough sometimes to show a man from a distance that you would like to meet him( and not just be in his bed) and, perhaps, later on to the level of more serious relations.

Start non-verbal communication better with a soft smile. Imagine yourself a safe haven in which a male ship is invited. The next step: eye contact is the most perfect and always understandable way for men and women to transmit love information. A look directly into the eyes is a signal of sympathy. Do not forget that with sexual arousal, which usually accompanies flirting, the pupils increase.

Conversation with

"Telling" eyes with non-verbal communication can be quite a lot. And in order not to get confused as to how to behave with a man, receiving from him certain signals with a look, the next "hint" is better to learn by heart, otherwise you risk getting into a stupid situation with flirting. All the actions described below are in most cases performed subconsciously and reflexively, but if desired, you can simulate them to "talk" with the object of flirtation with the help of looks.

So:

• closed eyelids - a gesture that speaks of an attempt by a person to remove someone or something from his field of vision, he can be combined with a slightly flipped back head and a "haughty" look, which means a negative reaction to the behavior of a woman or a man;
• slightly opened eyes - this look means mental tension, but only if it does not combine with turning the eyes in any direction - then it reflects an impatient expectation or slyness;
• narrowed eyes - this is a forced measure of protection, caused by the influence of any stimuli, general discomfort, unpleasant thoughts;
• narrowing one eye is one way of secretly explaining to someone( for example, when coquetry is performed, a slight squinting of the eye is performed with simultaneous slight inclination of the head in the side and a corresponding smile, and a simple wink is an attempt to establish mutual understanding);
• look ajar( squinted) eye - indicates the desire to find out the intentions of other people, but at the same time completely hide their;at the same time a cold, unpleasant impression is made;
• look at one point or in the distance - it speaks about reverie, immersion in one's own world, this view can be used intentionally if there is a desire to demonstrate to the interlocutor that he is an empty place for the beholder;
• looks straight when the eyes of the interlocutors are approximately at the same height - the best way to establish eye contact with a person you like, this look indicates interest in the partner, especially if you turn not only your head but your whole body;
• view from top to bottom - means a sense of superiority of the one who looks from above, and the one to whom one looks - inspires a feeling of insecurity;
• view from below - expresses submission, unless it is due to a slight growth or acceptance of a casual pose( for example, a person just sat on a chair at that moment, and you - stood) and, in this case, equated to a direct look;
• wandering look - can express an interest at once to everything, or, if it is not a searching look, its absence( if you glide this view vertically on the man's face, remember that this means increased interest, and coupled with a smile - admiration);
• an intimate look - this glance slides over the person's face, stops slightly in front of the eyes, then descends below the chin, looking at other parts of the body is the look of open flirting, the men themselves look at them rather openly, but the female look may not notice;
• a sidelong glance - usually serves to convey interest, when accompanied by slightly raised brows or a smile, and to convey a sense of hostility.

Now about how to behave with a man when trying to tie a "conversation" with glances. The researchers found that if a man( "B") is liked by a person( "B"), he will look at him. In turn, "B", having felt a glance, will decide that he likes "A", and will look at him in response. In other words, to build a good relationship with a man, more often meet with his gaze.