How to become an attractive girl - we become attractive
According to the research of psychologists, attractive girls get job faster, pay them more, forgive mistakes more often( or do not notice at all).And in the company of a pretty oboyashechka always a source of admiration and attention. But it also happens otherwise - not possessing natural beauty, the girl for some reason attracts, like a magnet. Why? If it's not just beauty, then where is that universal key hidden that can open a lot of doors? It's all about charisma.
Have you ever met a man who, being not particularly beautiful, would be so fascinated that he did not want to end a conversation that had been started briefly? It turns out that it's not only the outer shell, but also the inner stuffing. Meet something on the clothes, but escorted. ..
And here's a retreat: escorted not only by the mind. Important here, of course, and natural beauty, and style in clothes, and the mind, and overall elegance. Balance is important. Interested? Of course. How to become an attractive girl, thinks any of us. Well, let's try to streamline the thoughts and start acting.
To begin with - fall in love
No, no, not in a young man. Into myself. Are you surprised? Would you like to become Marilyn Monroe, or Angela Bassett, or Vanessa Williams, or at least Gabrielle Union? How many such clones on the planet, how many imitators! But why then did they not become so recognized and known? The answer is really simple: not the inner content. Remember the parties you've been to: the opposite sex was not drawn to cute faces, but to a unique inner world. Beauty, oddly enough, can be faceless, or even vulgar and repulsive. And the inner world is born and develops gradually, taking root in the erudition, refinement, self-sufficiency, sense of proportion, in respect for oneself and others, in the ability to communicate. And on the books of Dasha Dontsova alone this does not develop. Start with the classics on which the previous generations were raised: from London, Guy de Maupassant, Shakespeare, Bulgakov, Dostoevsky, - from those authors who teach to think, teach to feel, teach to analyze.
Remove the disks with pop and rep. Well, at least for a while. Listen to Mozart, Tchaikovsky, Bach. Immerse yourself in the sound. Just close your eyes and listen. .. This music is able to open a new feeling and a new look at the whiff of the wind, the flight of the moth, the rustle of the leaves, the sound of the surf. This music can teach you how to love. To love sincerely, for real. Love yourself, love people, love the world. In it, your soul will be born in a new way. Who needs a beautiful but thoughtless doll, who has only boutiques and salons in his head? They say that they spend time with some people and marry others. Decide which category you want to be. If in the first, then, in fact, you do not need to do anything. Well, if in the second, then the internal education is in place # 1.Here, as in the song: "There's no escape from this."
Take care of the body
But this is already parallel to spiritual education. Reading recipes for "fast and one hundred percent weight loss" will not do anything. Excess kg, you may lose, but instead of the relief of the muscles you will see saggy and pale skin. So get busy with exercise. At your choice - shaping, swimming, aerobics, dancing or just a gym. If you do not have extensive knowledge in the subtleties of the formation of a figure and have not heard, say, a carbohydrate window, then the coach will definitely need you. Well, at least for a month. And then you can try to continue your studies yourself.
Revise the wardrobe
"Yeah, but boutiques are still needed!" - you will think. We need, of course. Still meet on the clothes. This is after you can reveal yourself as a person, but the first impression is still built after assessing the appearance. By the way, you can do without boutiques with their fabulous prices. The ideal option is to look through magazines with examples of classic clothes and turn to the tailor. Clothing tailored to your own standards, to order, and even with some own additions, once again favorably emphasize the individuality, highlighting you from the crowd. Why classics? Because it's always on top, always in fashion. Fashion is relative, sometimes pretentious and funny, and the classics are always refined, compelling, recognized.
And that with makeup
By the way, about makeup. .. I guess you heard something like this: "I wonder what's under her make-up?" Naturalness, once again natural. Bright makeup will adorn unless the representative of the tribe of the Papuans. Cosmetics designed to emphasize beauty and hide flaws, and not change beyond recognition. In addition, a bright makeup is vulgar. Of course, he will make you pay attention. But the result will be either an ironic smile or a question: "Are you free today?" Tomorrow the same person will most likely not ask you the same question tomorrow. Only natural tones, only neatness, only moderation. Refuse from tonal creams and powder you can only with good nutrition, full sleep and oxygen "feeding" - walk more, breathe air, immerse yourself in nature without a trace, dissolve in it, then it will dissolve into you.
Without ethics - nowhere
Actually, the concept of "ethics" is extensible. Let us mean by it the culture of communication and the ability to behave in society. We will bring here the unspoken rules of decency. For example, possessing a feature of a good interlocutor, you are guaranteed to place a person to your own person. And the beautiful accessible construction of a logical chain of thoughts is clearly not enough. Learn to listen. A rare individual does not like to talk. Take advantage of this. You will have time to say it.
As for the unspoken ethic, then, apart from the basics of the series "in which hand should I hold a plug and what kind of a knife?", There are also other topics: "but how do I look drunk or with a cigarette in my hands?"Forgive for such a rude statement, but moderation should be absolutely in everything. Drunk girl will cause either pity or disgust. And as for the "fragrance" and the aftertaste of cigarettes when kissing, it's probably not worth talking. ..
The question is not how to become an attractive girl, but how to become organic, necessary, memorable. Love yourself, develop, enrich the world from within. Constancy is quickly boring. Learn to give something new. Only then you will become interesting, only then you will want to stay. And maybe for life. ..