Will the mother not feel doomed to hopeless labor, if without rest, she will be cared for with the child?

Mothers really need to take a break from the baby. That's why it's so important to share parental concerns with the child's father and other people you trust. But in the case of loving care, instead of feeling bound to the arms and legs, the mother feels connected with the child. Our mothers who choose this type of relationship describe their feelings as follows:

"I feel such a strong connection with my child."

"I feel that everything is normal, when I'm with her, and I feel uncomfortable when we are not together."

"I feel completely satisfied."

Do not forget also that a loving care that stimulates a child's calmer behavior makes it easier for people to enter the child together. You do not have to feel sentenced to life for sitting at home, when all your life is limited to communicating exclusively with babies.

Loving care raises the bar high. What if I'm not at the level? Will not I make horrible suffering for myself because of the guilt complex?

We all miss blunders somewhere, but if loving parents are given a foul, the damage is minimal, since the fundamental relationship with the child remains strong. In addition, those who feel loving care of children are more difficult to traumatize, which frees parents from stress. The style of communication with the child, called loving care, is not a list of what needs to be done to get a fun-loving and obedient child. The five concepts on which the loving care is based, as the blocks of the foundation, are the first steps in the formation of one's own parental approach. These are just the basics, intuitive, sound principles of child care. Using these basic blocks of loving care, you can

create your own parental approach according to your lifestyle and the level of your child's exactingness. In addition, there may be medical, social or economic reasons for which you may not wish or be able to apply all principles consistently with each child. Do as much as you can when you can.

Yes, at times you will feel guilty. A parent is a profession fraught with bouts of guilt. Love for your child makes you vulnerable, and you can often feel that you are not doing enough. But please note. A guilty feeling can be useful: a sense of guilt is an internal alarm system, something like a siren that turns on when we do something wrong than we should. Part of the maturity of a person and a parent is to recognize a healthy sense of guilt and use it to make the right decisions. Loving care develops your sensitivity, an internal signal system that helps you make important decisions about the child.