Live, understanding not only everything around, but also the motives of your actions.

The main thing here is to accept the idea that people can be more important than goals, principles and future. It's also worth keeping your revolutionary thought - relations with people can be more expensive than rationalism. Constantly ask yourself the question: is your case worth more than a person?

Maybe it's worth it. But we must not forget that ingratitude is poorly perceived, it hurts people and thereby spoils your reputation.

After all, you yourself suffer because you do not see positive, you are all in negative experiences, you are all unhappy. At least, one must be more careful in statements, even if you remain in your opinion.

The paranoiac should be especially careful with timid sensitives and those who tend to perceive the world in gray tones as hypothymes. Do not be like an elephant in a china shop. These will be easy to break. And the hysteroid will fall into hysterics. With paranoia it will be difficult - he will also go on you ram, and you can not avoid a frontal impact. Epileptoid? Well, except that the epileptoid will support you, if you really like it with your program. But he, too, with pride. The schizoid you will crush the brain tissue so that he can not participate not only in brainstorming, but in general will lose the gift of speech along with the creative gift.

Paranoiac All that is said is important in your relationships with relatives, especially with your wife.

Place the straw in the form of sincere empathy( feeling in the soul of another), interest in small personal experiences.very close.

I advise you to study the materials on psychology of relations and psychotechnics of communication, to pass trainings. Everyone can at least slightly "screw up" himself in places where he is difficult for others, instead of "humming" others.

Do not you want to? Do you think that you are charming? I - for Only when you come with serious mental trauma, the bonus for harmfulness in working with you will increase, and there will be nothing to pay. Will you ask for charity? We'll give it to you. But what will happen to your self-esteem?

And now do not want it? Your business. But only if you get into those troubles, where you can get out with the help of people, do not rely on the same people. If you manage to mislead the new - for a while they will be with you, but. .. for a short time, not for the whole time.

And if I did not convince you here, well, die alone, alone with the god of evil, the god of gold or even the god of the common good in the distant communist tomorrow, but no one will close your eyes and give you the notorious mug of tea or duckso that you piss in her before death. .. Remember how Stalin died?. .

Everything that was said in the last paragraphs refers to the situation "you are paranoid".But if the family next to you is paranoid, then he, too, should not be uncomfortable in your presence.

I do not refrain from savoring the minuses, I'm talking about how heavy is the paranoia for the family. Scary how heavy, the nightmare is as heavy, the horror as heavy. Well, on the one hand, of course, if it's all the same psihopatiya. And on the other - in general without paranoia there would be no social movement and social movements. Is it possible to live in a frozen world? So, the paranoia changes traditions, contributes to the development of society, the introduction of new social forms, and new social forms open the way for technical innovations. They contribute to the moral development of mankind. In a paranoiac good - for the whole people. Global. Psychotherapeutic technique, surgery, implanted bill, vaccine in vitro - all this is more important than help in the device. The minuses and plusses of the paranoia are far apart from each other, like the banks of the Volga. In fact, we see an ever-angry tyrant, and the book from his liver-stained books, to read and reprint the text of which the relatives had many times-a few years later. Moreover, it is not clear whether he will benefit from his social developments, which he preaches in this book, or only conflict with the authorities. Well, there's nothing to be done, this is "Selyavidialectic".It is necessary, if not to reckon with it, then at least keep it in mind.

I appeal to my wife with any psychotype. Well, you chose your paranoiac, admired his achievements, admired the way others admired him, and, tamed. Means, in the answer. We'll think about how to be.

I'll give the advice to take it( it's better even to say more pompously: to implement acceptance) with its features, as they are, and in the form of a counterbalance to remember the negative qualities of other psychotypes( neobya

of hypertension, epileptoid conservatism, manipulation of the hysteroid. ..).It is necessary to see and appreciate his positives. Disadvantages as a continuation of merits and even "dignity as a continuation of shortcomings" - let these two versions become and in relation to the paranoid good beginning. Yes, such positive qualities of a paranoid as working capacity and the ability to think deeply and globally are a continuation of inattention to the child's tear and especially to female tears. We will love him as he is, with his minuses for his pluses.

Nothing should be implied in relations with him, but everything must be said, negotiated and negotiated. If agreed, it will be more difficult for him to turn his hands to logic;but the contract is better written, and so that to exclude contradictions in its interpretation.

With him and with him it is advisable to follow the rules of psychotechnics of communication. To be interested in his proposals, achievements, to refuse humor in his address, from negative assessments of his personality and relics, accusations and categorical, from teachings and edifications, even from advice.

It makes sense to think: maybe he is right in his innovations. Or just give way and do not touch his folders, which lie unevenly and spoil the aesthetics.

Finally we touch on the financial issue in the family of the paranoid. It is best to agree on the main goals of the family. This will serve to the fact that it will not be necessary to clarify each time. In addition, it would make sense to allocate household money, the rest divided by the percentage or absolute amounts that the wife spends at her discretion and at her discretion husband. No one is intruding into the other's compartment. Less contacts - fewer conflicts.

So, moving towards each other with an understanding of the subtleties of the psychotype, we can prevent or mitigate conflicts.

I will say that, in spite of the scarcity of paranoia, their significance is so great that I decided to dedicate a large fragment of this book to them. And now we turn to the conjugal problems of epileptoids. They are about half of all men and fifteen percent among women. So statistically this is a more significant psychotype.