Love is always a bond. But these bonds are not burdensome, if there is love. ..

And then here is a case from my psychotherapeutic practice. Freedom-loving 24-year-old husband Sasha did not want to say good-bye to his men's company. He participated in bachelor parties, drank, came home to his beloved Lada, as they say, warm. He did not change - really stag parties. He refused all questions, said: "Well, Th, you really played cards, and that's it. .." And yet Lada could not stand it and went to her mother, and there the girlfriends assured her that there were no bachelor parties. Lada found out that the next stag will be "at Serega", she went there, and there were some girlfriends of her. So the marriage was upset.

But the opposite situation. Also from my consulting practice. My patient told me that when her husband was on a business trip one day, her general friend phoned her and offered to meet. She explained that today she can not because she carries a husband's cloak to dry cleaning;tomorrow can not because it reprints the article of her husband;and the day after tomorrow my husband comes, and then we'll meet. Nesolono hurling, "family friend", who wanted a separate relationship, bowed in a telephone conversation. What was the pleasant surprise of his wife when she heard from her husband that he had heard this conversation. He called at that time home from Chisinau and could not connect, but he could hear the conversation. This clearly strengthened their love and trust.

Well, if the wife wants to cause a feeling of jealousy. .. If shows interest in her of other men, speaks about the possibility and admissibility of treason and replacement. .. And then it even comes to actual betrayal with a demonstration to her husband( I do not meanbetrayal, dictated by a new deep love, and treason precisely as a means of coercion). .. She does this, perhaps because of thoughtlessness. She thinks that this will strengthen her position in this married couple. And very much mistaken. Jealousy

only one-time can spur love. At this moment he is ready to do everything, if only she did not leave( or returned).But then the CRACK is growing. The LATCHED SLIPPED VESSEL OF LOVE GIVES DROP.

The husband later gets the opportunity to replace( in this we have already figured out) and takes revenge.

So, declare with exclamation again( and then again more than once): THERE WILL BE NO LOVE

In the future, our discussion of conjugal conflicts all the topics are equally remote from the center. So let's now engage in aesthetics in matrimony according to the principle: what will the eye fall to, if only it were related to the marriage.