If you carry the baby with you, it can change for the better all your life.
Even the most busy mother, if she is carrying a child, does not believe that the child is preventing her from living, but rather believes that it improves her life. Because she has gained experience in the art of wearing a child, she finds ways to include the child in her daily activities and desires, and there is a delightful circle: when a mother wears a child, it strengthens the attachment through which the mother wants to be with her child more time. Since she wants to be with her child and at the same time wants or needs to do other things, she finds successful ways to carry the child with her when she is doing other things. This further strengthens contact and affection, because the mother discovers that the child is not at all an inconvenience or a hindrance, but a source of joy and fullness of feelings.
Karen planned to return to her work outside the home when her child turns six months old.
She was maximalist in her career and used to doing everything well and correctly. She transferred this professional attitude to her maternal care and wanted to do everything right for the child. As assumed by a loving parental approach, she wore her child a few hours a day for the first six months. We can say that the child was with her, no matter what she did. When the child was six months old, Karen and little Jane had such a strong contact that Karen told me: "I can not go back to my old job and leave the baby."She continued and explained to me that something inside does not allow her to part with the child. Acting according to her convictions, Karen began to look for another place and found a job, which she could take with her child.(Mothers who can not carry their children with them to work can strengthen contact by wearing their children during non-working hours, see Article 17, Work and Child.) If you are carrying a child, this provides the circumstances necessary to enhance contact,and since contact strengthens, the mother tries to find a way of life that does not interrupt this connection, - this is another example of how the carrying of a child benefits the mother, child and society.
If a child is worn, this makes life easier for parents - and it is much more pleasant to be a child.