Marriage for love

People speak about feelings of love in different ways. The word "love" is used in a variety of meanings. Defining their relationship, men and women say that they fell in love or stopped loving, lost love. Love is also called the feeling that people feel for their family, friends and family. All these manifestations of feelings of love are very important for people, but we will not dwell on them. It will only deal with love in marriage.

I am convinced that the feeling that arose between a man and a woman who show interest to each other can give rise to true mutual love even when interest takes the disguised form of any benefit. I believe that interested in each other people are potentially able to create their own marriage and for the sake of love. Love is curative, it gives life and freedom, exudes energy. She is strong and active. It's worth fighting for, it's worth living for. Every person deserves a great happy love.

Definitions of love in different peoples simultaneously and confuse and explain the meaning of this feeling. Thus, some authors who define the word "love" quote the ancient Indian word "lubhyati", which means "he desires".Others use words of Greek origin, such as "eros" and "agape".In the dictionary of N. Webster( 1758-1843) 2 it is said that this is "a feeling of deep personal attachment, caused by sympathetic understanding or bonds of kinship;passionate affection. "

I understand by the word "love" also the charm, desire and unconditional goodwill. Loving people can express each other's important emotions directly and openly, without any hidden motives. In love there must be a bright sparkle, joy and pleasure. It evokes passionate affection and a strong physical attraction. It has its own ups and downs. In love, the feelings of two people merge into a solid flow of mutual trust and appreciation.

Actively to love means to show tenderness to the spouse, respect, trust and fidelity. Such concepts as attachment, devotion, do not convey the strength and depth of the feeling, called the word "love".The Austrian psychologist 3. Freud( 1856-1939) said that love is an attachment, not a feeling. However, he should object, as people often feel affection for those who do not even like them.

A person who loves another wants the best for him. He does not ask himself: what will be the benefit to him from this love? In history, the facts are known when the kings renounced the throne, renounced the inheritance and all the wealth to marry their beloved woman, considering the feeling of love as the greatest value in life.

In marriage, love usually manifests itself more fully and strongly. It concentrates on a certain person, connecting together the inner essence of two people. True love is not limited to external manifestations, it penetrates into the heart of the chosen.

Intimacy and intimacy sometimes arise gradually on the basis of everyday worries. Sometimes an intimate relationship is facilitated by a beautiful evening with music and flowers, when both partners are in an atmosphere of romance, happiness and love. Feeling of deep spiritual affinity comes with a jointly read book, as well as while walking alone in the rain, or when attending a musical concert. And then the spouses, whose marriage is based on love, get pleasure from marriage and camaraderie.

I knew the spouses who, after ten years of quite a stormy marriage, never reached the feeling of unity, continued to love each other. The wife left a note to her husband at the mirror, where he usually shaved, as follows: "I want you to change something in your actions and words. But I will not stop loving you, even if you do not, because I love you for who you are. I very often do not like what you do, but I love you. Does this make sense? "The husband wrote to his wife in response:" I'm glad that you like me the way I am, otherwise what's our marriage to? I do not want to play a performance for you. I just want to be me. When I feel that you like me, then I want and can change something. In joy and sorrow, in wealth and poverty, in sickness and health. .. I love you. "

Married life is much better if partners love each other for their individuality, and not just for the sake of convenience, romance, fellowship or spiritual unity.