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  • The bag saves from crying and colic

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    In the course of our research, parents in my practice often stated: "My child is happy while I'm wearing it."Employing the bag, parents of previously capricious children reported that their children seemed to forget how to cry. Parents received more joy from their children, because the children were more satisfied. The children were happier, because they had less need to cry. Families grew happier, and I became happier, because finally there was a way to make restless children cry less. Inspired by this discovery of the old art of calming a child, I wondered why in the bag children cry less, and also, did other pediatricians notice that if he was carrying a child, he was crying less?

    In 1986, a group of researchers from Montreal published the results of a study of ninety-nine mother-child pairs, half of which fell into a group that was asked to carry their children in their arms or in a bag for at least three hours a day. In the control group, parents were asked to put the children in the cribs so that they looked at the merry-go-round or the photographs of the human face, but do not try to calm the child by prolonged wearing on their hands. Children who wore more, cried and expressed anxiety 43% less than children in the group in which their parents did not wear it. An important feature of this study is that mothers were recommended to carry their children throughout the day, regardless of the condition of the child, and the

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    not only after the baby has begun to cry or become displeased. Usually in a Western society, a child is taken in his arms and wearing after the of how he burst into tears.

    We studied the work of anthropologists who studied childcare practices in other cultures. These researchers, all of one, agree that children in countries where children are borne on themselves are crying less. In countries of Western culture, we measure the number of children weeping per day in hours, while in countries of other cultures it can be measured in minutes. We, in Western countries, are used to believe that this is "normal" if the child cries an hour or two a day, whereas in other countries this is not the accepted norm. Based on the general opinion of anthropologists, the conclusion that the more a child is born, the less he cries( and also by identifying this relationship from his own experience), we come to the following question: why?

    Wearing a child helps the child to cry less, because it has a beneficial effect on the child's vestibular apparatus described above. Vestibular stimulation( jiggle, for example), as has long been known from life experience and careful research, is the best cure for crying. Vestibular stimulation, which takes place while carrying a child in a bag, calms the child, as it reminds him of the time spent in the womb, allowing the child to recall the familiar sensations that were imprinted in his developing brain during life in the uterus. The acquaintance takes precedence over the stranger that surrounds him now. This removes the anxiety of the child, and he has less need to cry.

    Because the bag in which the child is worn looks like the uterus as soon as human capabilities permit, it provides exactly the kind of parental care that a child could dream of, and helps the child to adjust to the new surroundings. If everything is stacked, as you want, there is no need to be nervous. The child develops with his outer uterus, as he did

    it in the inner womb. We can erroneously consider the birth of the end of the assembly line, from which a tiny adult man descends, ready to instantly adapt to the world. It will be easier for us to understand what is really happening if we consider a newborn as something not finished to the end, unfinished. Wearing in a bag creates a unity to which the newborn is accustomed, giving him a sense of well-being. A baby feels its value depending on how it is treated. Wearing increases the child's self-esteem.