7 ways to change yourself for the better
- Start fighting with bad habits! You will not get better if you have bad habits. The fact is that they will interfere every time: either you will be constantly scolded for them, or you yourself will torment your thoughts about your shortcomings. They will prevent you from cultivating in life. Everyone understands that you can not get rid of bad habits quickly, but for this it is only necessary to begin. Let it be a reduction in the dose of nicotine or alcohol, however, they will begin to somehow move in a positive way. More detailed instructions on how to get rid of bad habits you can read in one of the following articles of the online magazine Vse-Sekrety.ru, so subscribe to updates!
- Make a plan for the next five years! One day it's better to become more unreal, for a year - it's also difficult, but for five years - more than possible, and you can change so that you just do not know yourself. Your plan should be 100% real( in any case of destiny), and also very detailed. You should know what you will do in any of the months of your life. Do also a system that will help you keep track of how far you have deviated from your plan. It's quite easy to create such a system - write opposite each month of the future, what results you need to achieve. Remember the goals should not be sky-high, especially if it concerns your weight, then you will not lose 20 kilograms for 1 month, no matter how much you like. And if it concerns money, then there should be as many plans as you really can get. It is better to overfulfill your plan than not to reach the minimum mark.
- Do good deeds. A good person is easy to distinguish - he always does good deeds! Do good is not only useful, but also nice. After all, think how easy it is to help an elderly woman to bring bags or fix a broken fence in the country. It is easy for a child to get a kitten from a tree, and to take a baby carriage from the floor to the young mother. Such actions require a minimum of time and effort from you, but in doing so you receive an incredibly positive attitude, words with gratitude, and not only your personal opinion of yourself grows, but also the opinion of others. Do not refuse help, especially if it is worthless for you, do not turn a blind eye to injustice, do not be indifferent - and then you can change yourself the better side!
- Be honest with yourself and others. Another feature that distinguishes a positive person from bad is to be able to always be honest. It's always easier to lie than to tell a person the truth in your eyes. Around of us is such an amount of blatant lies that sometimes it becomes bad to become. And all lie - friends, friends and even close people. No, a lie for good is one thing, but a lie for mercenary purposes, this is a completely different situation. Honest people on earth are few, but they exist! Do you want to become one of the few? !Being honest is difficult not only with surrounding people, but with yourself. After all, remember how often we deceive ourselves? !Example: nahamili in the store? And we go along the road and think that I am to blame myself, I crawled under the hot hand or at an unnecessary moment. Have you cut your salary? !Simply head bastard and that's it?!. .. But in fact, everything, on the contrary, than in previously told situations. Rudeness was not your fault, but the reduced salary - for your mistakes.
- Keep your word. A few centuries ago, honor - it was not just an empty sound, they were dying for her and were afraid to miss her whole life. One of the main points of honor was the ability to keep one's word. Do you want to change yourself? !Learn to keep all the promises that you have been told. Do not dare to say out loud what you can not achieve, and if you have already mentioned, then do it as you please, whatever it would cost you. Those who hold the word are respected and listened to in any society, since they always know that the words spoken by this person are not an empty phrase, but truth that can not be disputed. Keep the promised word is very difficult, even not all of this is obtained, but to learn this definitely worth it!
- Create a strong relationship with the other half. You can not, become better, without having in your heart a love that could warm you at any moment of your life. A person is a being who can not live without love, he will always strive to find a person with whom he would like to spend the rest of his life. Therefore, if you are not in search of your love, you can never achieve perfection. It's not for nothing that all senior officials had the second half. After all, it is also an indicator that a person can create a family, cherish it and in every possible way try to teach others about it. It's unlikely that someone from you will take an example if you are lonely and unhappy.
- Create your appearance the way that you really like. It's not enough just to change yourself inside, because all of us evaluate ourselves not only for personal qualities, but also for external ones. Here you need to learn how to stop being afraid of experiments - to try yourself in various "roles".This is especially important and necessary for women. It's not enough to change the style of clothes. After all, you need to change your hair, makeup, manner of movement, gait, etc. Because only in this way you will believe in your changes. Think for yourself that image that would be interesting to you, which you would like to imitate and who to be like. Yes, we agree that there are no ideal women, and it's not right to start an idol! However, you can from every well-known woman take for yourself only those criteria that you like only!
7 steps that will help change yourself for the better.
That's all the steps that can change your destiny! They are complex and light at the same time. Do you want to change yourself? Take Action!
The changes come into their power for a long time, many will take a year to change themselves to the one who would have liked him. However, it is better to spend several years on your positive changes than to live a life that absolutely would not like!
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