Read the correspondence of a beloved guy, her husband: advice to jealous women

It is necessary or not to read the correspondence of a beloved guy or husband - there are different opinions on this matter. Some will say that, of course, it is impossible. Others may argue that their loved ones do not have secrets from each other. Who is right?

Secret Zone Of course, loving people should have a lot in common, they should know each other well, but each person has his own secret zones, in which he does not allow anyone. This does not mean that you do not trust each other. Simply you, although making up a single whole as a couple, still remain individuals.

Alien correspondence is a private matter for everyone. Everyone has the right to his personal space, his thoughts and feelings. Reading someone else's correspondence is like reading someone else's thoughts. This should not be done, even if very interesting.

It's important to stop your curiosity in time. If you live soul to soul with your loved one, tell everything to each other, the psyche is still different. You can come up with thoughts that may never be shared with your loved one, or with a friend or friend. Sometimes such a glimpse in the mind that it becomes scary.

Personal correspondence( mail, diary, sms) - a closed psychological zone, that's why you can not read other people's correspondence. Even if you really want.

Trust

If you love each other, then you must trust each other. If your boyfriend or husband has a correspondence with someone, then this does not mean that he is cheating. It means only that he has his own personal space that you do not enter into. This is his right and he must be respected. The more you trust him, the more he trusts you.

Read the correspondence? Put yourself in his place. Would you like it if he read your correspondence? Hardly.

Yes, your boyfriend may have secrets from you. Treat this with respect.

If you are tormented by jealousy and questions of correspondence do not allow you to sleep peacefully at night, then just talk to him about it. Ask who they correspond with. If his answers do not satisfy you, then tell me frankly about your torment. It will be much more honest than digging into someone else's correspondence. Let him know that he gave you a reason for jealousy.

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