Work and carry the child
Wearing a baby in a bag fits perfectly into a wide variety of life styles. It makes life easier for a busy mother. Mothers in countries of other cultures have created different bags such as bandages because they need to carry their children with them when they work or when they need to leave the house. Mothers in the countries of Western culture, too, do not sit still, only act in a different way.
Apart from the fact that Martha has nursed eight children, she also works as a breastfeeding consultant and teaches at breastfeeding courses. One day, just before the seminar, Matthew, who was then six months old, completely inopportunely quarreled. Not wanting to cancel the occupation and even less willing to leave Matthew at a time when he is particularly in need of it, Martha took the
with him and carried it in our bag, while 150 pediatricians read out a one-hour lecture. After the mother and child completed their "lecture" on the topic "A loving approach to caring for the child," one of the doctors approached her and exclaimed: "What you did made a great impression than what you said!"
Many mothers working outside the home for only a part of the day were able to carry their children with them to work. Such work as sale of real estate, demonstration of goods, cleaning of premises and work in the store, allows to take the child with them. Janice, the mother, whose duty it is to perform cleaning in homes for several hours a day, carries her child in a bag while she does her job. One of our friends, a pediatrician, carries his child to work in his office. Often a child is on it, when she conducts examinations on the day of a healthy child. The child is worn by her assistants when she examines a patient who may have an infectious disease. Combining work with the wearing of a child allowed her not to part with her newborn and continue working with her profession.
Most employers at first do not want to give mothers permission to bring their children to work, but we recommend that they test this option. Very often employers find that a mother who was allowed to carry a child at work works more
productively, because she appreciates the fact that she was given the opportunity to be near the child. Such mothers make extra efforts to prove that they can perform two jobs simultaneously. One director even found that the child attracts more customers to him, as if they feel that since there is a long tradition of carrying a child and working, everything is correct here. Try it and check it yourself!
Wear outside the house, eat out
How many times have you had to say: "I would love to, but such a small child. .." A few months later, some mothers have fear of enclosed space. No line in the mother's contract with the child says that you should stay at home and become a recluse after the child was born. But a woman who has just given birth usually does not get ready to leave her child with someone to leave the house. Wearing a child in a bag allows you to take your child with you.
When our son Stefan was two months old, we were invited to an official event in strict suits. Instead of rejecting the invitation, as the newly-made parents usually do, we took Stefan with us and wore it in a luxurious fashion bag, and the three of them had a wonderful time. From time to time, pacified, Stefan lay peacefully in his bag for three hours. Stefan did not bother anyone, and often even became the center of attention. At first, there was a puzzled look on their faces, as if they were racking their brains: "What is it wearing on it?" Puzzledness was replaced by admiration."Oh, this is a child, what a dear!" By the end of the evening, when the guests noticed how pleased we were, that they had solved the problem with the bag, a general benevolence reigned in the hall. The child in the bag received not only social approval, but admiration.
Here's another scenario. Soon after the birth of the child, the husband says: "My dear, how about a date? Let's go to the restaurant. "The wife replies: "But we can not leave the child."How to solve this dilemma? Wear a child in a bag. Children behave in restaurants quietly, if they are worn in a bag. They rarely start crying, and usually they can be seen, but not audible. Children can in this case quietly suck their breasts and rarely break the peace of the owner of the restaurant.