Why the man does not call - Why men and guys do not call

Why can not a man call with whom the relationship developed, it would seem, quite safely? You promised to call! Many know how awful waiting is, how every phone call causes a pleasant tremor in the body and what disappointment a girl can experience. When he realizes that the call is not the one who would like to hear.

Do you think a phone call from a man you like can be called exactly the same sign of attention as flowers and compliments?

But why does not a man call? The reasons for this can be very many, but they can all be divided into 3 main types.

When a man wants to call but does not do this

1. It should be noted that men do not consider phone calls as important as women think. And the representatives of the stronger sex just do not like to talk on the phone. Tell me, have you ever met a young man who can say at least 40 minutes? If you met, then you know, most likely, at the other end of the wire he has a woman and he himself has been trying for some minutes to find any excuse to stop this conversation. Therefore, men do not call as often as we would like. In addition, they do not understand why telephone conversations for women are so important.

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   From this and there is misunderstanding and problems. The man absolutely did not call without back thoughts and does not imagine that his beloved woman could be offended because of this. In addition, women can also come up with a bunch of different reasons why he does not call and ignores her.

2. When the relationship just starts the reasons why a man does not call, can be very simple. For example, this: "Well, I'll call her, and what will we talk about?".Of course, this applies mainly to men who are not very talkative.
   Often in the male sense, a telephone conversation equals an invitation somewhere. That is, I called, then I must call for a date. But after all, young people have financial problems when he simply can not afford any meeting.
   It happens and so that men are tormented by complexes, such as the fact that a girl can reject their sympathy and all the rest. Yes Yes. It happens. All people are different because they understand why not to call every man is simply impossible.

3. He can not call simply because he has technical problems. Never thought about it? For example, lost the phone, it broke, accidentally erased your number, left somewhere where there is no normal communication. And then a couple of weeks passed, and he already does not understand why to call, because time is lost.
   Know if a man is interested in you, it's pretty easy to check, just by meeting in person. If you like a man, you will easily understand this. If you do not see the opportunity yet, try to contact him somehow other than the phone, write on social networks or email, for example. If the man does not show any interest, forget about him. He does not deserve you.

He does not want to call

This is another and very, unfortunately, common cause. And do not ask: why did the man stop calling?

1. Know that even in a situation where a man always picked up the phone, when you called and several times he called you, it does not mean that he is interested in you and will call again.

2. Perhaps you just did not like him. It happens. No one can please absolutely all people.

3. Maybe he is married, and he has a very difficult job, which requires a huge time. In this case, it does not matter whether you like him or not, he has neither the opportunity, nor the strength, nor the desire to call you. Yes, and why reassure, the code of relations with you, he simply does not plan?

4. You had a stormy meeting with the continuation and after that he does not call you or write. Then, unfortunately, it is quite possible that the finale of this evening was for him the very goal.

Reasons for this category are very easy to verify. You know how? Call him yourself. If he starts to make excuses, come up with a bunch of reasons, and postpone the date for another day, draw a conclusion. In addition, pay attention to his intonation, it is important as ever.

But this is suitable in case the guy picked up the phone. But it also happens that you call him, call, and he does not call back, but he does not pick up the phone either. Yes, a person at this particular moment can be very busy. But then he should be curious why you called him. If he does not show any interest and prefers to hide, forget about him.

A bit about the sad

1. The guy can not pick up the phone, reject calls and interrupt calls for one reason only - you do not like him at all, and he does not want to communicate with you.

2. Sometimes men stop ringing, so, to throw their girl. And women begin to suffer.
   Would you like to check if he decided to drop you in a similar way? Then make an appointment with him. The fact is that men in this situation try to avoid not only phone calls, but also any other type of communication. That is, he will not answer calls or refuse to meet with you.

3. Perhaps the man is just manipulating you: he will disappear, then appear again. So he does not let you forget him, using all the known "law": "the less a woman we love, the more we like her."

Whatever the reason, why a man does not call, never be sad. Do not dig into the causes of this phenomenon, especially without knowing the exact information. It's very harmful for your nerves! Than to think and guess, just check the information. If you think that the problem can be attributed to the first category, you can very quickly be convinced of this. If to the second and third, here it is necessary to wait. Will not he deceive you forever? In general, do not deceive yourself and even more engage in self-discovery.

Know, there will always be someone who will not only call, but also try hard to see you. And such a man needs to try not to lose.